This is not like some of my other posts which were more along the lines of "What the **** is wrong with this girl?" mind****s This is just a small thing but I'm puzzled. Yeah, it's nothing, but bear with me, it's the small things that I think are the real, often irreconcilable, differences between men and women that ****s my game up.
So some girl I used to work with posts on my facebook wall asking me how I've been doing. Another woman who I don't really know like that, more like an acquaintance and whom I haven't seen/talked to in at least 2 years, 'likes' that status (the question by the other girl). Now I checked, we're not mutual friends with the first girl so I'm pretty positive she would have had to go on my profile, go through my wall, read that post, and 'liked' it. It wouldn't have just randomly come up on her newsfeed (and the post was a week old). But why?
So since she was on, I chatted with her a little bit but she seemed disinterested in the very brief conversation (one word answers, long pauses between answers). Well, here's the convo...
me: hey ***** (name)
her: heyy
how are you?
me: good
her: good good
me: yeah you posted on my wall so i was like havent talked to her in a minute
how you doing?
her: haha
pretty tired just got back from the gym w my cousin
exhausteddd
me: temple gym or another gym?
her: **** (name of her gym)
me: oh yeah is that the place where you were doing the yoga at?
her: yah!!!
me: yeah I remember. I never did go there for that yoga class. I'm bad lol
so anything new with you? just school and what not?
then she didn't respond for like 15 minutes so I got off.
To be clear, I am not interested in her nor did I think she was interested in me or anything like that. This is not a romantic huh? thing.
This is just me trying to make sense of why this random woman who I don't really know well beyond small-talk and who I haven't seen/spoken to in probably over 2 years apparently went to my profile to like a random old status that asked how I was doing (so it's not like a liking of a content-based post, or something), then when I talked to her, she seemed disinterested?
Can anyone explain?
Thanks
So some girl I used to work with posts on my facebook wall asking me how I've been doing. Another woman who I don't really know like that, more like an acquaintance and whom I haven't seen/talked to in at least 2 years, 'likes' that status (the question by the other girl). Now I checked, we're not mutual friends with the first girl so I'm pretty positive she would have had to go on my profile, go through my wall, read that post, and 'liked' it. It wouldn't have just randomly come up on her newsfeed (and the post was a week old). But why?
So since she was on, I chatted with her a little bit but she seemed disinterested in the very brief conversation (one word answers, long pauses between answers). Well, here's the convo...
me: hey ***** (name)
her: heyy
how are you?
me: good
her: good good
me: yeah you posted on my wall so i was like havent talked to her in a minute
how you doing?
her: haha
pretty tired just got back from the gym w my cousin
exhausteddd
me: temple gym or another gym?
her: **** (name of her gym)
me: oh yeah is that the place where you were doing the yoga at?
her: yah!!!
me: yeah I remember. I never did go there for that yoga class. I'm bad lol
so anything new with you? just school and what not?
then she didn't respond for like 15 minutes so I got off.
To be clear, I am not interested in her nor did I think she was interested in me or anything like that. This is not a romantic huh? thing.
This is just me trying to make sense of why this random woman who I don't really know well beyond small-talk and who I haven't seen/spoken to in probably over 2 years apparently went to my profile to like a random old status that asked how I was doing (so it's not like a liking of a content-based post, or something), then when I talked to her, she seemed disinterested?
Can anyone explain?
Thanks
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