Sometimes... I wish I was 20 again.

[Asher]

Originally posted by Kuciwalker


Because you can't get married, duh.

Yes, I can, I live in Canada.

Technically we've been engaged for 3 years, and we're going to get "married" next year once he graduates. Going on a month-long honeymoon around the world, too.

[Traianvs]

I'm only 23, but I wish I were 20 again. Ahh what great times...

Right now it's moving, searching for a job, leaving behind friends.

and perhaps: I wish I had chased more girls when I was a bit younger instead of getting totally wasted all the time (as in daily). It's precisely the chase that's good, everything after that is just lame and predictable

[Ben Kenobi]

Because men are just like women, duh.

How many women have you had sex with, Ben?

None.

How long was your longest relationship?

Three years with the ex. No we didn't have sex, but we were seriously considering getting married. Two others that were over 6 months and under a year.

So I obviously have no experience about what long term relationships are like.

[Asher]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
So I obviously have no experience about what long term relationships are like.

Obviously, because you're a virgin you don't have any ****ing idea what long-term sexual relationships are like.

Thanks. You can apologize via PM or publicly for assuming I can only have a long-term relationship with women.

[Ben Kenobi]

Obviously, because you're a virgin you don't have any ****ing idea what long-term sexual relationships are like.

No, but how would you know what a long term sexual relationship with women is like either?

I mean this is hilarious. If you have standing to offer advice then so do I, because as you said all relationships have similar features.

Thanks. You can apologize via PM or publicly for assuming I can only have a long-term relationship with women.

And you need to improve your reading comprehension. All I said is that a sexual relationship with a man is different then with a woman.

I'd like a pm apology to me and elok for calling us retards please.

[chequita guevara]

If Elok or Ben knew anything about gay men, it wouldn't be all that funny a question. I've known gay men who've had sex with more women than I have, not that I've had a lot of partners.

Really, this is just one more thread where Ben presumes to tell people with more knowledge how ignorant he is.

[chequita guevara]

In ref to the OP, I'd only wish to be 20 again if I knew then what I know now. Otherwise I'd be just as insecure and unsure of myself and wishing I was older so I could be having more sex.

[Asher]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
No, but how would you know what a long term sexual relationship with women is like either?

I mean this is hilarious. If you have standing to offer advice then so do I, because as you said all relationships have similar features.

You just don't have a clue, do you.

The problems inherent with long-term relationships (diminishing passion in sex, increasing frustration with quirks, etc) are gender-blind. It doesn't matter if you're screwing a man or a woman, the issues remain the same.

And you need to improve your reading comprehension. All I said is that a sexual relationship with a man is different then with a woman.

I'd like a pm apology to me and elok for calling us retards please.

Why would I apologize for something you keep making more and more evident?

You think that sexual boredom only happens with women? Is that because you find sex with men infinitely exciting, or is it because you are a ******. Take your pick.

[Ben Kenobi]

If Elok or Ben knew anything about gay men,

Nice edit, che.

Which is why elok asked the question he did. We aren't saying anything about gay people in general, just asher.

I wouldn't presume to know anything about what a long term relationship with a man would be like. I think men and women are very different from each other in what they want out of a relationship.

[Asher]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi


Nice edit, che.

Which is why elok asked the question he did. We aren't saying anything about gay people in general, just asher.

Which bit you in the ass because, ironically, I'm more sexually experienced with women than you are.

I wouldn't presume to know anything about what a long term relationship with a man would be like. I think men and women are very different from each other in what they want out of a relationship.

I think that's because you're a sexist pig who thinks a woman's role is to service the man sexually and cook dinner.

Times have changed since your ideals from the 1920s. Women hold jobs now, women are independent, and women have single-handedly mismanaged some major American corporations.

Perhaps you should take a course on interpersonal relationships in Psychology. Most of the points of friction in relationships don't come from the fact that one of you has a 1 inch dick and the other a *****, it comes from personality conflicts and, for lack of another word, "boredom".

Quite frankly, a uber-Christian virgin republican is the last person in the world that should be commenting on relationships -- gay or straight, healthy or not. You're a prime candidate to be caught in the washroom of an airport tapping your foot.

[Ben Kenobi]

The problems inherent with long-term relationships

Which apply to any relationship, as you said, sex or no.

If that is true, then you have no standing to criticise my experience or not. If sex with a woman in a long term relationship is a requirement, then neither of us have any experience with that situation.

So please choose Asher.

You think that sexual boredom only happens with women?

No, I never said that at all.

Is that because you find sex with men infinitely exciting, or is it because you are a ******. Take your pick.

I merely said men and women have different things they want out of a relationship.

[Elok]

Originally posted by Asher
I've had sex with more women than you and this isn't a problem exclusively with women (nor was the context even about women specifically).

If I were giving out ****** awards, you two would be top of the class.

IIRC, you are both republican so there's a good chance you've both had sex with more men than me, but my point still stands.

Wrong. I'm registered Democrat, tend to vote either way with a slight bias towards liberals. Voted reluctantly for Kerry in 2004, will probably vote McCain just because Obama has diddly in the way of experience. I'm not in any way supporting Ben's argument with Oerdin here, just saying that, being a gay misogynist, you're not really the best judge of long-term straight relationships either. You have no way of knowing that it's all the same. Ben might just as credibly say that he's lost all passion for his right hand lately, and as hands and women are basically alike...

[Asher]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi
Which apply to any relationship, as you said, sex or no.

If that is true, then you have no standing to criticise my experience or not.

I sure as hell do. The context was clearly the impact of long-term relationships on sex. You've never had sex with anyone let alone in a long-term situation, so you know precisely nothing on the topic.

I merely said men and women have different things they want out of a relationship.

At what point will you realize this has no bearing on the topic of sexual boredom that Oerdin brought up and you replied to? Do you think we can get another 100 posts in before you realize it and avoid the thread?

[Zkribbler]

Originally posted by Oerdin
I understand they had to dynamite this whale. The state fish and game department came out and literally blew it hell then let the tide take away the bits of blown up whale.

That is a horrifically stupid idea!

I've heard of it being done elsewhere, and the result is chucks of rotting whale blubber and blown across a wide area, and the whole place stinks so bad that angels fall out of Heaven.

[Asher]

Originally posted by Elok
Wrong. I'm registered Democrat, tend to vote either way with a slight bias towards liberals. Voted reluctantly for Kerry in 2004, will probably vote McCain just because Obama has diddly in the way of experience. I'm not in any way supporting Ben's argument with Oerdin here, just saying that, being a gay misogynist, you're not really the best judge of long-term straight relationships either. You have no way of knowing that it's all the same. Ben might just as credibly say that he's lost all passion for his right hand lately, and as hands and women are basically alike...

First of all, the things Oerdin has touched on are very clearly evident in most long-term relationships regardless of genders.

Second of all, anyone who votes for the Republicans after the 8 years the US just had under the Republican leadership is mentally "touched" and fits precisely in the category of closeted, self-repressed homosexual.

Third of all, the misogynistic thing is fun more than anything else. The true misogynists are the people here who think men and women are so fundamentally different that as someone who has sex with men, I don't understand their relationship dynamics.