Originally posted by AAHZ
its as simple as a top-bottom relationship.
you could have 5 gay people in a room, but if they are all bottoms nothing will happen except drama. aggressive tops and submissive bottoms is the key component of any gay relationship.
Bears Club is a little different, but as i have personally known some bears, one will take on the dom one will be the sub. they are an example of a versitile gay relationship. and even though i think they are as ugly as sin, they are the epitomy of what gay relationships SHOULD be.
but its usually just bottom-top type thing that does not last over 6 months and is filled with drama and bull****.
its as simple as a top-bottom relationship.
you could have 5 gay people in a room, but if they are all bottoms nothing will happen except drama. aggressive tops and submissive bottoms is the key component of any gay relationship.
Bears Club is a little different, but as i have personally known some bears, one will take on the dom one will be the sub. they are an example of a versitile gay relationship. and even though i think they are as ugly as sin, they are the epitomy of what gay relationships SHOULD be.
but its usually just bottom-top type thing that does not last over 6 months and is filled with drama and bull****.
Wow AAHZ, I am amazed. Thank you for an honest answer.
So, just to be sure I understand this, self-confidence is what would decide it? A confident gay person will look for less-confident someone to take care of ( in a sense) and vice versa?
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