sex is repulsive

[Fake Boris]

Originally posted by Wycoff


Not trying to put words in Jon's mouth, but I see a distinction. A true bi-sexual would be able to have happy, lifelong, fulfilling romantic & sexual relationships with people of either gender. A hedonist would enjoy sex with either gender, but could only form lasting, fulfilling romantic relationships with one gender.

If that's true, Jon is just assuming that the "natural" telos of sexuality is to create long-term, monogamous relationships.

In all frankness, he sounds like a nice guy, one you could trust to be a loyal and caring friend in RL. However, I can't help but wonder how intellectually honest is someone who admits to being addicted to porn — i.e. an infinite pool of women that can be 'summoned' for your pleasure, however and whenever it suits you, and then be forgotten — while at the same time lecturing people on the moral superiority of love and monogamy.

[Bkeela]

I think vaginas are quite beautiful, but I agree that sex is a repulsive act. If we had no instincts to have sex, and it did not feel pleasurable, no person in their right mind would subject themselves to such a degrading, indignant act.

[DrSpike]

But we do and it does so it isn't.

[Jon Miller]

Originally posted by Oncle Boris


If that's true, Jon is just assuming that the "natural" telos of sexuality is to create long-term, monogamous relationships.

In all frankness, he sounds like a nice guy, one you could trust to be a loyal and caring friend in RL. However, I can't help but wonder how intellectually honest is someone who admits to being addicted to porn — i.e. an infinite pool of women that can be 'summoned' for your pleasure, however and whenever it suits you, and then be forgotten — while at the same time lecturing people on the moral superiority of love and monogamy.

I haven't looked at porn in a month, maybe more.

Jon Miller

[Fake Boris]

Well at least you're being coherent with your principles.

[Spiffor]

Originally posted by Oncle Boris
However, I can't help but wonder how intellectually honest is someone who admits to being addicted to porn — i.e. an infinite pool of women that can be 'summoned' for your pleasure, however and whenever it suits you, and then be forgotten — while at the same time lecturing people on the moral superiority of love and monogamy.

I'm sure Jon is intellectually honest, and I imagine his virginity (by choice) is precisely because he has the combination of those beliefs and this behaviour.

[Cort Haus]

Vaginas
Yoni-worship
Kundalini-power
Licking pùssy for hours

[Jon Miller]

I don't think that porn is a good thing, as I said... I am an addict.

First thing is admitting you have a problem.

Jon Miller
(and yeah, I am sure the porn addiction helped on the virginity front)

[Ben Kenobi]

lecturing people on the moral superiority of love and monogamy.

If it's true it's true regardless of what Jon does.

I hope he can find someone who will love him as much as he is looking for to make the wait worthwhile.

[Asmodean]

Vaginas

Sorry Wiggy, but I'm not with you on this one

[Dis]

Originally posted by Bkeela
I think vaginas are quite beautiful, but I agree that sex is a repulsive act. If we had no instincts to have sex, and it did not feel pleasurable, no person in their right mind would subject themselves to such a degrading, indignant act.

sex doesn't seem degrading from the guys pov.

[Jon Miller]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi


If it's true it's true regardless of what Jon does.

I hope he can find someone who will love him as much as he is looking for to make the wait worthwhile.

I am not a virgin for the anyone else in the future, I Am a virgin because of who I Was in the past or now.

Jon Miller

[Ben Kenobi]

Jon, I'm trying to say that I hope you find a nice girl that will make you very happy.

[Cort Haus]

I can't understand people who rant and rave about sex being "degrading, disgusting etc". Just because they have an unhealthy attitude to sex (which they clearly do) they shouldn't think that sex itself is wrong.

[Jon Miller]

I personally think sex is great/etc and like the looks of (Some) vaginas... but not penises.

Jon Miller