Broken heart thread

[General Ludd]

Re: Broken heart thread

Originally posted by Aro

I may be the problem, I think…

First step to recovery.

Be yourself. Do not change for anyone.

I think this is bad advice. If someone is a jerk, I'd really rather they don't be themselves. If they can be made a better person through a relationship with someone else (or of their own accord) I'm all for it.

[Zkribbler]

all my ex-wives said similar things about me.

This is the line that bothers me most. Going over the list of complaints, they all pretty much boil down to an unwillingness or inablity to take your women out, have a good time, a make them feel special & needed.

I vote that, in the future, you work on this. If necessary, set aside a time (e.g. Friday evenings) that is her exclusive time...you will spend time with her and you will have fun!

[MRT144]

thats how i feel. if something isnt working for multiple people with you maybe it isnt everyone elses issue. adapting who you are and forging a stronger self through hardship might be beneficial.

if being yourself and not being concious of self isnt working then why do you do it?

[Spiffor]

I feel your pain, Aro

Good luck with moving on

[MrFun]

Originally posted by Zkribbler
you will spend time with her and you will have fun!

. . . . and that's an ORDER, mister!

[Lancer]

Blah! Don't give in to the unrealistic expectations of judgemental western women!

[Ben Kenobi]

Let's see.

You work long hours.

You come home play civ all night.

Then you expect sex when you finally decide to go to bed.

Does anyone see anything wrong with the picture here?

[Ninot]

OH OH, I THINK I KNOW BEN!

He didn't buy the expansion pack?

[VetLegion]

@ Ninot

[notyoueither]

Re: Broken heart thread

Originally posted by Aro
My girl friend just dumped me tonight...

2- I worry too much about my children (I have two, from my third marriage).

4- I don’t have enough money...

She's not worth your time. Forget about her. There are much better people out there, I'm sure.

I may be the problem, I think…

Maybe, but I wouldn't take the word of someone who thinks you worry too much about your children for it.

[Colonâ„¢]

What's the final judgement on the x-pack BTW? Any bugs left?

[Dinner]

Screw her. Better to find out now she's unhappy then after your fouth marriage and you have yet another kid.

[VetLegion]

Am I the only who thinks that since Aro has three marriages behind him, it's him who should be giving advice to the rest of us, not the other way around?

[Dis]

just be glad you're not me. That should cheer anyone up.

[Cort Haus]

There's nothing wrong with working hard, caring about kids, or not having a ton of money. OTOH, completely ignoring a partner in favour of computer games is something than can be worked on, and should be worked on if you care about that relationship.

I may be the problem, I think…

I think you're onto something here.