I'm implicated in a divorce for proposing a menage-a-trois to a wife...

[Provost Harrison]

Don't eat sweat, please, it's not very nice...

[Spec]

Originally posted by Victor Gallis
I am sure Texans are perfectly sane and rational people.

They are. Aside from the fact that the're all rednecks that eat roadkill, and that 27% of them own Pick up trucks when they mostly spend their lives in Dallas and use the box to move their friends once every 2 years....
Well, come to think of it....not so sane...not rational either...

What a false statement Victor!

Spec.

[LordShiva]

Originally posted by Spec
They are. Aside from the fact that the're all rednecks that eat roadkill, and that 27% of them own Pick up trucks when they mostly spend their lives in Dallas and use the box to move their friends once every 2 years....

If your friends ate roadkill all day, you'd need a truck to move them too.

[Spec]

Spec.

[Dis]

well this is a thread title I thought I'd never see. no offense.

[Spiffor]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison
I'm stocky enough, I am not really looking to increase my muscle, just lose weight...

Swimming (especially endurance swimming) is excellent for you in this regard. Couple it with an adequate diet (eat all that is healthy and don't starve, BUT don't eat fats), and you're in for a good weight loss.

I used to have no self-confidence whatsoever with women (finding my then-girlfriend was a fluke), back when I didn't feel good about my body. Ever since I got thinner, and changed my clothing, I now feel much more confident, even though this is but one part of the equation (and feeling good-looking is also very pleasant).

[Last Conformist]

I sometimes wonder if it's really being thin you're feeling good about, rather than the implied control and self-discipline.

I mean, I'm about as thin as anyone could ask for*, and I don't feel good about it.


* Well, Narz said I should lose 10kg or so, but he's batfcuk insane.

[Spiffor]

Originally posted by Last Conformist
I sometimes wonder if it's really being thin you're feeling good about, rather than the implied control and self-discipline.

I mean, I'm about as thin as anyone could ask for*, and I don't feel good about it.

Well, in my case, I felt good about being healthy (I used to be overweight), and having the shape I wanted. But still, after feeling good on my looks, it still took me more than 6 months to feel good on a more general level.

[Dis]

I thought I'd be happier if I lost weight. But then I realized I still can't get a date.

I've determined that I will never be happy in life. And I'm happy with that conclusion.

that being said, I am glad to be thinner, than when I was up near 185. I can't say I felt good about myself weighing that much. I'm around 137 now. When I work out, I can't put on much muscle. I just don't think I have the genetic makeup to put on lots of muscle. Oh well. But I have no desire to go back to my fat days.

It take massive amounts of self discipline to lose weight. No fancy diets for me. Just a simple matter of eating less calories than I burn. Eliminating soda helped a great deal, but reducing portion size was very important as well.

[Flubber]

Guys while its true great shape can help, I found I got girls at a skinny 160lbs, at an overweight 200 and when buffed up an muscular and weighing 190. All that changed was when I was really fit, I had more instances of girls approaching me.

Confidence is the key

[Colonâ„¢]

Originally posted by Elok


Thereby solving both problems at once--no more unjustified allegations, no more virginity. Good call, sir!

Any time lad, any time.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison


Yeah, well I am used to it, hell, I cope with it a lot better than any of my peers in the same situation, whom it seems to tear at endless. But I do find it annoying when people think they can just wheel it out for a laugh whenever convenient. I also dislike it whenever I mention anything remotely pertaining to sex, it is brought out again in a 'Provost, Sex...how preposterous ' sense...

I doubt anyone has noticed, but I have not brought up my situation for many, many years, with the exception in relation to one of Dis's threads, more for reassurance than anything. I've learned to live with it and face up to the fact that in all probability I will spend the rest of my life alone. That may sound melodramatic, but no one here really knows me and how I work...

yeah I've noticed you don't like to bring it up. But sometimes you just have to laugh at yourself.

what's wrong with laughs? I laugh at my own women problems all the time. Despite it all, I'm relatively okay with my situation. I'm feeling quite good right now, actually. Although it helps I have 2 women interested in me right now. The problem is I'm too shy to do anything about it. Oh well.

[Dis]

Originally posted by chegitz guevara


I don't accept that. There are women out there for you, you just have to look and when you find, recognize, and maybe stop holding out for a Playboy Playmate. If the ugliest, most vicious bastards can get mates, so can you. You just need more confidence comrade. I have faith in you.

that's not really true. Ugliness has nothing to do with it. It has to do with social skills. some people are just loners.

[Dis]

and to get back on topic, lets discuss menage a trois. Damn that's hard to spell, I had to look at the title.

Never done it, don't plan on ever doing it. Seems too complicated. . I'm not the best at multitasking.

[Spiffor]

Originally posted by Dis
and to get back on topic, lets discuss menage a trois. Damn that's hard to spell, I had to look at the title.

I find it very easy to spell