Doing nice things for women

[Snotty]

That boils down to you being a "safe" guy for them to flirt with or hang out with.

Maybe, and it works both ways too. I feel much more comfortable chatting with girls who know Im taken. Probably because of this, I still think theres plenty of girls (or their friends, v.important!) who would be happy to snap me up if I ended up back on the market and the timing was right for them.

[Mercator]

I agree with you Dis. I don't think there's anything wrong with what you're doing.

I just try to be courteous, probably more with people who are nice to me and/or women. And I'm not doing it with ulterior motives. Well, not *those* kinds of ulterior motives. It's always nice to get compliments. Trying to be nice just to get in women's pants, what KrazyHorse said, is pathetic.

And having a girlfriend helps. So, what Snotty said too.

Originally posted by Last Conformist
Liar.

No

[Dis]

yeah exactly. I know better than to expect anything romantic. I just like helping people (if they need help). And yes I do help men out a lot too, but I usually wait for them to ask for help.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Dis
So the question I ask is: Do women unknowingly (or perhaps knowingly) manipulate men to do things for them?

Some do, others don't. Simple, no?

Is the woman only nice to you when she wants your help? Does her smile looks faked or forced to you? If you need help, will she offer a hand?

[Saras]

Dis, you signature ROCKS!

[JohnT]

Of course you should be nice to "women", Dis. They're part of that class known as "people".

Nice women go home with the nice guys. I've got one of them sleeping about 15 feet away from where I type if you want proof. And, as a general rule, nice women generally don't care for the sort of guys who would put that in their signature, Dis.

Chivalry isn't dead. Those who say it is find it easier to be an ******* than to be polite. Fvck 'em.

And this:

So the question I ask is: Do women unknowingly (or perhaps knowingly) manipulate men to do things for them?

Did you like realize this yesterday or something?

[Dis]

women are people!

The more I think about it, the more I think I'm not pathetic for doing these things. After all, I'm only nice to women who are nice to me. So I'm getting something in return. I don't do things for women who treat me like I don't exist. And some of these women at work give me money. It's difficult to explain why they give me money, but trust me- they do. And because they give me money, I'd do anything for them.

P.S. I change my signiture for no one. Except for the moderators of course.

[Last Conformist]

You've got a woman boss?

[Dis]

Originally posted by Last Conformist
You've got a woman boss?

one of my managers is a woman. And my company is half owned by a woman (married couple owns/runs the company). But that's not what I meant by money.

okay, you dragged it out of me. I'm a male stripper. That's why I like my job so much.

[Bill3000]

Originally posted by Dis


one of my managers is a woman. And my company is half owned by a woman (married couple owns/runs the company). But that's not what I meant by money.

okay, you dragged it out of me. I'm a male stripper. That's why I like my job so much.

But you just said earlier that you were female

[Japher]

I'm nice to people because I am a nice person, not because I expect something out of it.

If someone isn't nice to me when I'm nice to them I generally call them names behind their backs and tell their coworkers that their gay or a cross dresser or something.

[Last Conformist]

I find it hard to imagine Japher being nice.

[Japher]

Shuddup TLC!@ I'm nice! ish...

[Last Conformist]

Me? Shut up? Can't imagine that happening.

[Japher]

Me? Shut up? Can't imagine that happening.

That is such sig material... if only I didn't already have you in my sig