Hypothetically, say you have an 18 year old male. He has never really had any friends that are girls. Once, when he was about 8 or 9, and within the past half year or so he has made another one. But not really that close. A friend, but not a very close one. He has never done anything the slightest bit sexual obviously (never held a girl's hand, never been kissed, and never been on a real date, though he did go to a school dance one time). He also has never looked at porn or masturbated. On top of that, he does not feel close at all to his mother and hasn't since he was a lot younger. Sometimes he has lengthy obsessions over girls he knows that are way out of his league that his friends think are probably kind of weird and a little unhealthy.
Does he suffer from a repressed libido? What are the effects of this? How can it be solved?
And is there a way to eliminate sexual desire? I have heard that there are chemical ways to do it that sex offenders use, but I have heard there are other ways. I've heard you can do it by learning to channel this energy in other ways that make you lose desire. This is what mystics do, and some priests do it too, and I hear it can be done through therapy. This would help him a lot. It would get rid of all of the attachment he has to certain girls, which cause him nothing but anxiety. This anxiety is brought by the feeling of wanting someone and knowing you could never be on the same level as them and get what you want. Knowing that you are just not good enough. And you try and try to be close to them, but all it does is make things worse. Because you are entirely socially inept.
So, any information would be greatly appreciated.
Does he suffer from a repressed libido? What are the effects of this? How can it be solved?
And is there a way to eliminate sexual desire? I have heard that there are chemical ways to do it that sex offenders use, but I have heard there are other ways. I've heard you can do it by learning to channel this energy in other ways that make you lose desire. This is what mystics do, and some priests do it too, and I hear it can be done through therapy. This would help him a lot. It would get rid of all of the attachment he has to certain girls, which cause him nothing but anxiety. This anxiety is brought by the feeling of wanting someone and knowing you could never be on the same level as them and get what you want. Knowing that you are just not good enough. And you try and try to be close to them, but all it does is make things worse. Because you are entirely socially inept.
So, any information would be greatly appreciated.
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