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Originally posted by Ted Striker
Damn this muthu****ing thread is still going? Last time I left it was on page three!
Damn this muthu****ing thread is still going? Last time I left it was on page three!
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and it seems to have been threadjacked into "relationship creation 101"
To La Fayette, as fine a gentleman as ever trod the Halls of Apolyton
From what I understand of that Civ game of yours, it's all about launching one's own spaceship before the others do. So this is no big news after all: my father just beat you all to the stars once more. - Philippe Baise -
Yeah I saw that.
Very disturbing.We the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution. - Abraham LincolnComment
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I wouldnt jack slap ya i might hurt my hand
But I kinda see your point but I think women go thru the same things by not be the first choice of a guy
When you find yourself arguing with an idiot, you might want to rethink who the idiot really is.
"It can't rain all the time"-Eric Draven
Being dyslexic is hard work. I don't even try anymore.Comment
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ted the disturbing thing was bk getting up and telling nye to **** offWhen you find yourself arguing with an idiot, you might want to rethink who the idiot really is.
"It can't rain all the time"-Eric Draven
Being dyslexic is hard work. I don't even try anymore.Comment
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Are you drinking or not, Mrs. T? >?
DammitWe the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution. - Abraham LincolnComment
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That was a side of Ben I haven't seen beforeOriginally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
ted the disturbing thing was bk getting up and telling nye to **** off
We the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution. - Abraham LincolnComment
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Rules that you give to other people are exactly that. Just to be clear, it's not any specific 'tactics' that I'm saying are bad. The problem is the idea of tactics that are universal.Originally posted by Kull
you miss the point. tactics aren't there to "get" someone who doesn't want you. they aren't about "hiding" who you really ar.
Everybody plays some sort of game, simply because that's how human interaction works. From what I've observed, a successful relationship is largely dependent on both people agreeing on what game is being played and the rules they're playing by. (Of course, the definition of 'successful' varies depending on the rules you choose to play by.) So the sort of tactics you're talking about may be fine for you...but, if somebody who doesn't believe in them tries them, then they're misrepresenting the game that they're playing to their partner, and bad things start to happen. Either the partner eventually discovers the deception and recognizes it as such (in one way or another) or you resent the fact that you have to play a game you don't enjoy just to keep this person happy...and the whole house of cards comes crashing down.
So basically, the whole 'be yourself' thing is true. If you don't like the people that being yourself attracts (or doesn't attract) then the only way you'll really get them is to change yourself...the games you play will change as a result of that."In the beginning was the Word. Then came the ******* word processor." -Dan Simmons, HyperionComment
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Yes I amWhen you find yourself arguing with an idiot, you might want to rethink who the idiot really is.
"It can't rain all the time"-Eric Draven
Being dyslexic is hard work. I don't even try anymore.Comment
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Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
Yes I am
That's my friend.We the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution. - Abraham LincolnComment
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Yep...I'm very much in favor of drubnk princesses from TexasOriginally posted by Ted Striker
Are you drinking or not, Mrs. T? >?
To La Fayette, as fine a gentleman as ever trod the Halls of Apolyton
From what I understand of that Civ game of yours, it's all about launching one's own spaceship before the others do. So this is no big news after all: my father just beat you all to the stars once more. - Philippe BaiseComment
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I was trying to figure out what the hellwas going on. hell ming warned him guess the little dude had one to manyWhen you find yourself arguing with an idiot, you might want to rethink who the idiot really is.
"It can't rain all the time"-Eric Draven
Being dyslexic is hard work. I don't even try anymore.Comment
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The subset of tactics that take place at "the club" are the most obnoxious of all these rules. They often emphasize rudeness and shallow values.Originally posted by Koyaanisqatsi
Rules that you give to other people are exactly that. Just to be clear, it's not any specific 'tactics' that I'm saying are bad. The problem is the idea of tactics that are universal.
Everybody plays some sort of game, simply because that's how human interaction works. From what I've observed, a successful relationship is largely dependent on both people agreeing on what game is being played and the rules they're playing by. (Of course, the definition of 'successful' varies depending on the rules you choose to play by.) So the sort of tactics you're talking about may be fine for you...but, if somebody who doesn't believe in them tries them, then they're misrepresenting the game that they're playing to their partner, and bad things start to happen. Either the partner eventually discovers the deception and recognizes it as such (in one way or another) or you resent the fact that you have to play a game you don't enjoy just to keep this person happy...and the whole house of cards comes crashing down.
So basically, the whole 'be yourself' thing is true. If you don't like the people that being yourself attracts (or doesn't attract) then the only way you'll really get them is to change yourself...the games you play will change as a result of that.
You often see these virtues espoused on LA Dating shows.We the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution. - Abraham LincolnComment
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for some reason i cant sleep so i might as well finish off that 18 pack how many protien shakes you got ted
When you find yourself arguing with an idiot, you might want to rethink who the idiot really is.
"It can't rain all the time"-Eric Draven
Being dyslexic is hard work. I don't even try anymore.Comment
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Yeah I didn't even know that he drank. And was very surprised he started a drunk thread!Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
I was trying to figure out what the hellwas going on. hell ming warned him guess the little dude had one to manyWe the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution. - Abraham LincolnComment
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Only 1/2Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
for some reason i cant sleep so i might as well finish off that 18 pack how many protien shakes you got ted
I'm a little sick and completely exhausted so don't have the strength right now to tackle teh protein.We the people are the rightful masters of both Congress and the courts, not to overthrow the Constitution but to overthrow the men who pervert the Constitution. - Abraham LincolnComment
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