Poly Drunk thread

[Jon Miller]

I guess I get girls to talk about themselves.. and find out about them that way..

however, that seems to not turn into any real interest in me.....

I never really like talking about myself, and when I do it is as me, not as some fake figure of myself tha is false

as to why yuo had no trouble Mrs Tub, adn I have, I don't know

I know a lot of other people who ahven't really had trouble, but most of my freinds have, whish suggests that Physics Grad Students need help

Jon Miller

[Koyaanisqatsi]

whish suggests that Physics Grad Students need help

Well, I thought that went without saying.

[Kull]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
I wonder is it really that hard to find a partner. I have had no trouble in all my 36 years. Why is it so hard?

because women choose,
and guys have to be chosen,
and its real easy for guys to either not be chosen,
or to miss the signals

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Physics grad students?? dont they have girls in those classes?? I kinda answered my own question, i had a neighbor that was alone and couldnt find a guy. Butas I hung out with her i figured out why guys didnt go for her. she was a *****. Not to mention 60 lbs overweight. So with those two combined i could see why guys didnt want her. There was one time when she tried to go after tuber on a drunk night, hes was like eww get away

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Men choose women too. I seriously doubt there is not a guy that hasnt chosen a gilr he likes. Girls miss signals too ya know.

[Kull]

Originally posted by Koyaanisqatsi

whish suggests that Physics Grad Students need help

Well, I thought that went without saying.

so lets turn this into a physices problem. not from experience, but myu guess is that most physices grads fail in this area because they ignore the fundamental rules of science....study facts, not feelings. believeme, women telegragn in MANY ways if they are interested or not! they are telling you at EVERY moment of your "chance encounter" or "conversation" if they are interested. if the answer is yes, then you have to turn this "sorta interested" into " i MUST have his babies!!" and 90% of that is too feign disinrterst. it really isn't rocket science. but it requires self discipline and the confience to trust in yourself. again this soulnds cold, but practicve on a woman who you really aren't that interested in. believe me its much easier to try this when your heart isn't racing.

[Kull]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
Men choose women too. I seriously doubt there is not a guy that hasnt chosen a gilr he likes. Girls miss signals too ya know.

men do have a choice, but its to choose from women who signal they are interested. the trick, asa guy, is to spur interest in the one you hope will choose you. thnik for a minute. the whole "no means no" was directed at who? women ofr men? and what does that tell you?

[Koyaanisqatsi]

/me distances himself from the conversation

[Kull]

Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
hes was like eww get away

B****+ 60 lbs extra = "guy repellant"

(again, who did the choosing? and yes, you can jack slap me nnow!)

[Kull]

Originally posted by Koyaanisqatsi
* Koyaanisqatsi distances himself from the conversation

[suction pump] and in your experience? how has this "fundametal truth" played out? [/suction pump]

[Koyaanisqatsi]

As I've said before in these sorts of threads, my relationships have all come from friendships that became more or less intimate over time...I never saw the point of all the predatory stuff a lot of people try.

[Kull]

Originally posted by Koyaanisqatsi
As I've said before in these sorts of threads, my relationships have all come from friendships that became more or less intimate over time...I never saw the point of all the predatory stuff a lot of people try.

that's judegemental. if somenoe uses these "tactics" purely to use and discard fellow humans, then your opinion would be correct. but if good people like jon are apprised of ways to use human "partnering" behavious to attract the ONE, how is that bad?

[Koyaanisqatsi]

If you have to use those tactics to get them, are they the ONE? A relationship in which you aren't yourself isn't good...

[Kull]

Originally posted by Koyaanisqatsi
If you have to use those tactics to get them, are they the ONE? A relationship in which you aren't yourself isn't good...

you miss the point. tactics aren't there to "get" someone who doesn't want you. they aren't about "hiding" who you really ar. its al about recognizing the rules that drive attrafction and using them in your favor.

if you are playing darts and can do so with or woithout a blindfolfd, which would you choose? in either case, its still a game of darts, and its still you doing the throwing. the only question is , do you want to play the game with a handicap?

[Ted Striker]

Damn this muthu****ing thread is still going? Last time I left it was on page three!