Why am I such a good friend!?

[Illur]

stop over-analyzing things spacy

[Dinner]

Good advice.

[DerSchwarzfalke]

What the **** is a cholo?

[Pyrodrew]

Originally posted by DerSchwarzfalke
What the **** is a cholo?

mestizo or lower-class Mexican or Latin American

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Illur
stop over-analyzing things spacy

Agreed.

You know you need to go for it but the rest is the personality of the two people involved and going with that flow

[Colonâ„¢]

Originally posted by Urban Ranger
That certainly isn't my experience.

My take is space keeps missing the non-verbal cues. There's only a window of opportunity, and if he misses it, he remains a friend.

I know plenty of cases in which friendship turned into relationships. As far I'm concerned it can happen in any circumstance.

[Space05us]

Originally posted by DerSchwarzfalke
What the **** is a cholo?

Mexican gangstas yo!

[Ted Striker]

Yeah, it's usually referring to Mexican gangsters

Space,

I agree with Viking Eurocom. You're at the age where you can and should take chances. Don't be afraid to take chances, try not to think too much, and just go with it. You'll get a feel for what does and doesn't work for you. I agree to not overthink. I would just say avoid it at work, though, make that your safe place where things stay simple and don't become complicated.

I see too many people overthinking nowadays, and honestly, I see this overthinking as the biggest problem with American relationships nowadays. Maybe people just watch too much Oprah or Dr. Phil, and feel like they NEED to be doing something according to some expert that wrote a book or who was on the show for 15 minutes.

Good luck with your potential chula. (Don't call her that by the way unless you actually hook up seriously with her).

[Space05us]

I agree with Viking Eurocom. You're at the age where you can and should take chances. Don't be afraid to take chances, try not to think too much, and just go with it. You'll get a feel for what does and doesn't work for you. I agree to not overthink. I would just say avoid it at work, though, make that your safe place where things stay simple and don't become complicated.

I see too many people overthinking nowadays, and honestly, I see this overthinking as the biggest problem with American relationships nowadays. Maybe people just watch too much Oprah or Dr. Phil, and feel like they NEED to be doing something according to some expert that wrote a book or who was on the show for 15 minutes.

Its very difficult for me not to think. If I have so much as a few minutes alone on the toilet I will start to think. Stupid brain.

Good luck with your potential chula. (Don't call her that by the way unless you actually hook up seriously with her).

Whats it mean exactly?

[Boris Godunov]

This is all because you're gay. Deal with it.

[Ted Striker]

"Chula" just means like beautiful, usually you would call your (Hispanic, usually Mexican) girlfriend that. It's like saying "sweetheart," or "honey."

A less "heavy" term you can use if you want to call her beautiful is bonita.

[Space05us]

Originally posted by Boris Godunov
This is all because you're gay. Deal with it.

No. Ive considered that. Im not gay. There are gay guys at work. One of them is an older man who flirts with me, doesnt bother me, actually somewhat flattering, but the feeling is not mutual. I love *****.

[Ted Striker]

ZOMFG that cat is wearing UGG boots!!! That is like sooo 2003!!!

[Boris Godunov]

Deny it all you want, Space. I know I did. It's your destiny.

[Space05us]

Originally posted by Boris Godunov
Deny it all you want, Space. I know I did. It's your destiny.

I certainly hope not.