girl thread

[BlackCat]

Originally posted by Pekka
I almost called her. Tomorrow I try again.

Chicken

I begin to think that you are much more afraid that she would say "yes Supercitizen I wan't you; I want to give birth to your children ; come take me" much more than a flatly no (and a rofl).

Life doesn't really end just because a girl says no - besides, we wan't to hear the story (incl pics )

[Pekka]

You guys are just stupid. I said I will call her. You know, soon, not after a year. I decided I will call her, seriously. So, it's not helping when you say 'ohh you ***** you should call right now when it's 00:00 and she's asleep, you want to be weirdo!'. SHUT UP!

I will call her, but on my terms. It's a life changer if it works out so, it's not something I treat lightly. You don't know how much she means to me and how much I'm afraid of stupid failure because of it. I've been pondering and I WILL do it. LIke said, I will rather take a no than what if.

Do you guys seriously think calling me a stupid bastard will help? No it won't. And none of you belong to the SCC, so you don't know anything about SuperCitizen and what it's about, you don't make the rules, SCC does, and I happen to be FSC so I make the calls, not you guys. Say what you want but it's not going to change the fact. (SCC=SuperCitizen Council, FSC=First SuperCitizen, the head of SCC).

[Bereta_Eder]

summary please

[BlackCat]

Originally posted by paiktis22
summary please

SC in love for years; SC is a chicken; SC claims he waits for the right moment; years go by; SC get his ass kicked to do something; SC stil chickens out (actually used the whole evening to be told what to do instead of doing it); SC should get his act together and all of us waits to hear what happens tomorrow when she is not at sleep any longer

[Bereta_Eder]

Originally posted by BlackCat
SC claims he waits for the right moment; years go by;

what kind of supercitizen is that? (<- follow the red thing and call her!)

[Pekka]

YEARS? YEAh you can say years if 2 years is YEARS. It's still a long time I know. But I've made up my mind ... I ain't wasting no more time, HERE I GO AGAIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIN!

What a stupid song. But good video.

Anyway I will call her so stop bugging me people about that, you could give me good strategies, I know I have to actually make the contact if I want interraction. I was hoping more strategies, like laurentius provided some good info and suggestions, you guys just scream 'OMG OMG STUPID STUPID!'. I'm not the type of person who you would go on about forcing stuff, it'll just make it tougher. you want to be clever about it and subtle. Screaming only makes me angry, and angry doesn't make me do anything but more likely 'oh shut up!'.

[Japher]

Why be subtle?

If you start being subtle, women will be subtle back, and then get mad when you don't notice that they are being subtle.

Besides girls like that. They want you to scream at the top of your lungs if you like/love them. Don't kid yourself, behave the way you would like others to behave to you.

[Pekka]

No I mean you guys need to be subtle. Screaming to me won't help.

[Bereta_Eder]

Originally posted by Pekka
YEARS? YEAh you can say years if 2 years is YEARS. It's still a long time I know. But I've made up my mind ... I ain't wasting no more time, HERE I GO AGAIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIN!

I called a girl tonight. But late at night. Anyway, I wanted to ask her to go and see that movie with that guy gaylord focker and the parents etc

I'm baking that particular girl. You know little by little...

Yes. because she used to call me 5 times a day asking me to go out with her. and i wasn't in the best psituation but i said what the hell, paiktis, you must be strong, you have a service to do, dont let the girl alone.

so i pick up my self and go out with her (she's pretty hot). and we have ablast. then i say, ok call you up sunday we go do something. and she says, no better wait a week cause i have so much stuff to do....
YOU ARE ASKING PAIKTIS TO WAIT ONE WEEK? dont you know that's sacrilege? playing with my heart!!! everyone can find a little time if they want to.
but calling me up 15 times a day and then say, after a week? get your schelude right woman!

anyway, so now i'm calling and saying, hey we should do something, k i call you this weekend, but i dont!
let her bake let her wait.
anyway today i wanted to but she had gone to the countryside with some girlfriends. gdamn.
but no fear, i have another one i'll call tomorrow to ssee that movie with the parents of gaylord focker.

[MichaeltheGreat]

Originally posted by JohnT
God, I'm so bleeping glad to be past all that ****.

Roger that.

[Japher]

No I mean you guys need to be subtle. Screaming to me won't help

Sorry, I just finally read the OP. I was replying to this:

I need to kind of prepare myself perfect, make something subtle, like.. I need to bump into her somewhere or something, but I don't know where she goes to... any advices? It's her or it's no one else damn it. It seems to me I can't get over it.

[Pekka]

yeah ok yeah.. well I've figured I stop the whole stalking act and just ask when I gather myself to call her.

You bastards know I have difficulties with handling these weak emotions because I'm all about power so you are bastards for playing with me

[Bereta_Eder]

if you'd stop investing too much on it (or anything like it) (my life will change and blah blah blah ) it'd be easier to call her and also take care you have fun too. if you're not having fun, then what's the use?!

[Japher]

Don't tell her it's a date. Tell her that you enjoyed hanging out with her when you guys did and wondered if it would be ok if you started hanging out again. Enjoying ones company and wanting to jump ones bones are two different things. You shouldn't be embaressed to do stuff with her around.

Whatever you do, don't write her a note. That is total chicken sh1t.

If you don't want to go the friend route than just get some balls and ask her. What's the worse that could happen? She says no? If she says no just respond with, "Yeah, it's probably too big any way" and walk away.

[BlackCat]

Get real Pekka. Only few here knows your real person and none of us knows her !!! There are no general rules that applies to courtesing women - they all has to be won in their special way. Be yourself is probably the best advise since it's that's what you will be with her for several years if you win her.