girl thread

[Tattila the Hun]

She's propably married, has kids, and has fattened up to something resembling Roseanne...

[JohnT]

God, I'm so bleeping glad to be past all that ****.

Pekka: Loosen up. Stop overanalyzing. If you want to see the girl, do it. It's that simple.

[child of Thor]

Pekka - bloody give her a call or you'll regret it for the rest of your life(and we will too ).

You both clicked once - i've never found that to change, ever.
Get her before some lucky bloke marries her

And what ever the outcome - at least you'll know.

better than the rest of your life wandering about 'what if...'

[Pekka]

YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!

*stares at phone*

[laurentius]

I'd like to know what exactly does she study in Uni?

[JohnT]

Yeah! Pekka - call her up and ask her!

[Pekka]

no wait.. how could I forget.. I saw her couple of years ago in a bar.. and you know, I think she was totally .. I mean things were the same. It had been couple of years since I last had seen her, and we accidentally bumped into each other in the same bar. She grabbed my hand and said 'follow me', and my face filled with horror because I was sure she'd try to molest me or something and she was still taken in that time, right? I was in horror because I knew I couldn't stand back anymore but I'd do it. It's difficult to explain. Anyway, she was still with the dude then, but soon after they broke up I heard. She didn't molest me but it was kind of a moment again, for a good minute or two, like .. anything could happen and I wasn't imaging it I think because she was the instigator fo the situation. I was totally wobbly legs and ringing head.

So IN FACT it hasn't been 4 years, it's been 'only' 2 years since I saw her and she hadn't changed a bit and I think we were still clicking harder than ever. I actually forced myself to leave after I learned she still is with the guy. But like said, soon after they broke up. DAMN ITTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[dannubis]

man, pick up the effin phone will you

and please, do tell us in about two hours how it went

[JohnT]

Originally posted by Pekka
no wait.. how could I forget.. I saw her couple of years ago in a bar.. and you know, I think she was totally .. I mean things were the same. It had been couple of years since I last had seen her, and we accidentally bumped into each other in the same bar. She grabbed my hand and said 'follow me', and my face filled with horror because I was sure she'd try to molest me or something and she was still taken in that time, right? I was in horror because I knew I couldn't stand back anymore but I'd do it. It's difficult to explain. Anyway, she was still with the dude then, but soon after they broke up I heard. She didn't molest me but it was kind of a moment again, for a good minute or two, like .. anything could happen and I wasn't imaging it I think because she was the instigator fo the situation. I was totally wobbly legs and ringing head.

So IN FACT it hasn't been 4 years, it's been 'only' 2 years since I saw her and she hadn't changed a bit and I think we were still clicking harder than ever. I actually forced myself to leave after I learned she still is with the guy. But like said, soon after they broke up. DAMN ITTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was reading this, thinking - "Wow, this guy's got Pekka's style down cold."

Then I noticed you had changed your avatar.

[Pekka]

Yes I wanted to do something different.

Anyway it's like half life, I just chopped the time without seeing her in half, but instead of weakening the effect, it was the same. Chances are, if she'd be free, you know, chances are still there. MAYBE they aren't 100% chances, but there could be chances. None of you bastards know we connected.

Anyway.. I chickened out again. I had the phone in front of me and was thinking hmm maybe I'll just do it, but then I went to the bathroom and noticed I need to go on more rigorous training to be the best I can, and maybe change my hair because it's boring stupid now. I also need to.. freshen up my place because it's stupid now. I need to be best when, if she says yeah let's go out, I want to make the best impression because I can't afford to lose it if I get a chance with some stupid crap like having a stupid apartment or stupid hair. I know if it would work it doesn't matter what hair or what furniture I have but I still want tomake the best, because I want to feel good when I go in or make the call, it builds more confidence and I'll do a lot better when I don't have to worry about stupid things like that.. only best for her. ONLY best.

[laurentius]

Supercitizen acting like a wussy

[ajbera]

Advice: if you wait for the perfect moment, you'll be waiting forever. The perfect moment almost never comes, and it's (practically) impossible to manufacture. Call her out of the blue, tell her you wanted to talk because you had been thinking about her. Talk. Find out what she's like these days. Reminisce a bit, and make her laugh. See where it goes from there.

But do not, do not, do not wait for a "perfect moment". Big mistake.

[Kidlicious]

If you connected with her why would she care about imperfections.

[Pekka]

yeah I know.. I totally know.. but when some religious people train to face God or what ever, this is the same for me. But the good thing is, I have already accepted if she doesn't want to go out or anything, but I NEED to ask. That's the point I need to ask, if it's a no, it'll suck for some time but THEN I'll be able to get over it I think. Or become a sick perverted stalker. I can't say which one is more likely. BUt it's good I use it as a motivator to get things done like clean my place up etc.. who knows.. maybe I bump into her in the street and she wants to visit me, I can't have a messed up place then.. so I use it as a motivator too. To keep things in order.

[Spec]

I can't just phone her up and say 'hey wanna go out?'... I don't want to sound like a freak. It's totally like from Crazy about Mary situation, except I wasn't like the dude in school, naturally .

I need to kind of prepare myself perfect, make something subtle, like.. I need to bump into her somewhere or something, but I don't know where she goes to... any advices? It's her or it's no one else damn it. It seems to me I can't get over it.

Omg, are you serious? If you guys were such good friends you dont need this, just call her up and say:"Hey, wanna go get a drink?"
Either you weren't such good friends or you are just afraid of rejection...
Call her up man you have absolutly nothing to loose. You'll still wake up tomorow.