why

[Spec]

Originally posted by boann
A friend can never make you do that. Unless it's somekind of miracle.

lol... i see che agrees with me on this...
sex can be totally seperate from love and devotion.
even really amazing ceiling sex..

Anyone can make anyone com. That's easy. But there are different kind of orgasms, and the top ones are rare on the first try with a friend. No one is great at a video game the first time you try it. So, what I ment was this, you can "win", but when you get better with someone, you "win" by a much bigger margin. Imagine someone that gets top score the first time, now imagine after a month when you get used to eachother.

I"m sure you understand what I mean.

[boann]

Originally posted by chegitz guevara
boann, why don't you train young men? I'm sure there are plenty of young 20 somethings who need to learn how to have sex, how to behave towards women, etc. Consider it your personal mission to educate as many of them as you can.

ok .. you made me spew my coffee... lmao

i do have a few who constantly ask
for that very thing... but im not interested in casual
sex anymore...

[boann]

Originally posted by Skywise



Anyone can make anyone com. That's easy. But there are different kind of orgasms, and the top ones are rare on the first try with a friend. No one is great at a video game the first time you try it. So, what I ment was this, you can "win", but when you get better with someone, you "win" by a much bigger margin. Imagine someone that gets top score the first time, now imagine after a month when you get used to eachother.

I"m sure you understand what I mean.

actually in my experience the longer the relationship
the more difficult it is to keep things exciting..
after 10 years things become boring quite easily.
so the great challenge over long term is keeping it real and sexy.

[Spec]

You should change your name to moann....

[chequita guevara]

Boann, I apologize for making you spew your coffee.

I'm sure you know that a happy, healthy sex life can do wonders for one's emotional state. But as long as you've got the Rabbit™, you probably don't need men to help you there.

[boann]

lol, you guys are pretty entertaining sometimes

[Jon Miller]

it might depend on what turns who on

as well, when most people are tryting to attract a mate, they try real hard

which is attractive in and of itself, than once they 'win' one, they stop trying

I think this is a major reason relationships go south

Jon Miller

[Japher]

I like having my wife because she is someone who always will have my back even if I don't ask her too, and vice versa. It has nothing to do with sex, and the love comes from our commitment to each other (though that could be the other way around). Anyway, it is nice to have someone who will eat grilled cheese sandwhiches with you because the want to.

[Jon Miller]

I know for me personally I want a significant other...

although I know concously that it would mean sacrifices on my part

although sometimes I sort of wish I could be some person on the mountain...

Jon Miller
(I also want a maid, when I do get a significant other, I need to be careful that I don't make them a maid as well)

(I think this means I need to either get rich, or change my habits such that I dont' want a maid)

[Spec]

Originally posted by Japher
I like having my wife because she is someone who always will have my back even if I don't ask her too, and vice versa. It has nothing to do with sex, and the love comes from our commitment to each other (though that could be the other way around). Anyway, it is nice to have someone who will eat grilled cheese sandwhiches with you because the want to.

Aaahhh, Japher you are so sweet!


Now cut the bullshlt.

[chequita guevara]

Mmmm, grilled cheese sandwiches.

Let's see, I have to clean the kitchen, bake the bread, and then make the sandwiches . . . that's a lot of work.

[Verres]

Originally posted by Jon Miller
I know for me personally I want a significant other...

although I know concously that it would mean sacrifices on my part

although sometimes I sort of wish I could be some person on the mountain...

Jon Miller
(I also want a maid, when I do get a significant other, I need to be careful that I don't make them a maid as well)

(I think this means I need to either get rich, or change my habits such that I dont' want a maid)

Get a maid and pay her extra to sleep with you. Problem solved

[Spec]

Originally posted by Jon Miller
I know for me personally I want a significant other...

although I know concously that it would mean sacrifices on my part

What? Plastic surgery?

[boann]

Originally posted by Jon Miller
it might depend on what turns who on

as well, when most people are tryting to attract a mate, they try real hard

which is attractive in and of itself, than once they 'win' one, they stop trying

I think this is a major reason relationships go south

Jon Miller

i think relationships go south when trust and intimacy
are lowest. and by intimacy i don't mean sex.

[boann]

Originally posted by Japher
I like having my wife because she is someone who always will have my back even if I don't ask her too, and vice versa. It has nothing to do with sex, and the love comes from our commitment to each other (though that could be the other way around). Anyway, it is nice to have someone who will eat grilled cheese sandwhiches with you because the want to.

very nice