hot or not [six]: self biased retirement thread.

[Mr. Harley]

Self-Biased, congrats! Had a few nice exchanges in the past, and I'm happy you've found someone. It's ironic and poetic justice that she was not a project. It helps remind me that the world goes on, this and Che's wedding. Best of luck.

[OzzyKP]

You're absolutely right Self. I don't think of you really as a player, I was responding more to others (who probably aren't either, but were pretending at least, heh). And its not like I'm looking to get married, ha, not yet at all. I just don't like the awkwardness and uncertainess of dating and new girls.

i don't know what sort of methodology you're using, but you've got a much better schtick than i do.

So far my methodology has been to sit on my ass and not really get near many girls, or talk to them, waiting for Ms. Right to miraculously materialize at my door. Needless to say, it has failed spectacularly.

So it isn't as much as I've tried and failed, as that I haven't tried as much as I should. Though on MySpace, I put a bit of effort into it, and I wasn't getting many responses or much interest. Which is off-putting and frustrating. But still, I've been lazy.

In general though, I'm really bad with new people, no matter who they are. Except if I'm in work/political mode. Then I'm like a genuine, non-sleezy, used car salesmen. But otherwise, I just clam up.

[self biased]

so use what schtick you have to your advantage. i'll post more tomorrow evening.

[Ben Kenobi]

I just want to find that one special girl.

Then you have to get out and find her.

Plenty of places to go, but you have to look!

Except if I'm in work/political mode.

Performance anxiety. What is different between the two of these? You feel confident in the one and not the other. Try thinking of things the other way, and you will see what I mean. Treat your work/political mode as if you were talking to the hottest chick, and see how your reactions differ.

I feel the same way when talking to girls that I have never met. That's why they have things like icebreakers where you get to introduce yourself so things are not so awkward.

Where are you going to find girls, Ozzy? What kind of girl are you looking for?

[Dinner]

This is Jenni and I've been chatting with her off and on for the last two weeks or so. She's a Pychology major at SDSU.

[Dinner]

Here is Alyssa. She's a cutie who just moved to San Diego from Virgina but I can't say I like her lip ring.

[Dinner]

Kattie is poor white trash and she has a two year old kid so I'm not interested. I chatted with her once and see seemed like she'd be good for a fling.

[Dinner]

I don't know this one's name but I've sent her a PM. Hopefully she'll reply.

From the picture it looks like she lives out in east county some where which means she's most likely poor but she's hot enough that she might be worth the drive.

[Dinner]

At 18 she's much to young for me and I found all of her teeny bopper internet abreviations to be stupid. Still her picture is worth posting.

[Dinner]

It's amazing how well the "I'm a soldier serving in Iraq" line works.

[Az]

It's amazing how well the "I'm a soldier serving in Iraq" line works.

Well, I know that girls like that. Here, as well.

"Go to the uni", they said. "Get educated ", they said....

[Dinner]

That's when I tell them I've already graduated and have a degree. It's especially funny when I have a degree and the loud mouth hasn't.

[Dinner]

Jessy is a military brat who currently lives in Guam. She says she loves Europe and the Middle East. I can understand Europe but the Middle East?

To bad she's so far away because she's hot and she drinks beer.

[Dinner]

I wonder if she'll take my picture.

(BTW I don't know her and I haven't chatted with her but I saw her picture online and thought I'd share.)

[Az]

Jesse.