Spec, You did the right thing to go back and apologize.. makes you feel good, right?
I think you went over the line after laughing to her after the mixer thing.. It's times like these you can benefit the situation and ask chicks out. So easy to pick up there and just go you know 'I must help you out.. no no I'll help you out' and when she refuses and starts cleaning up you just go there and help.. then ask.. 'pretty bad day huh?.. So why don't we make it a happy ending.. say I buy you a cup of coffee?' .. excellent opportunity!
She immediately thinks you're a good guy to help her out and talk nice, she feels like clumsy idiot.. that's the moment when you strike.
I'm definitely an opportunist. But not in a bad way, it sounds like it's a bad thing. But you guys know, I believe foolishly that I'm the good guy, and eventually I'll get my break in things and start rolling.. like 'good things happen to those who wait'.. being patient and all that. So, meanwhile I try to be nice to everyone, extremely polite. You never know what's going to happen, maybe that person you help or save his/her day, be polite and good guy.. you never know.. you might benefit greatly after few years you go into job interview and there that person is! Or some other opportunities may come down the line. This doesn't mean you should think people as objects that you want to benefit from. But think it like good things happens to good guys some day. And if not.. well it's free and it makes you feel good, and if that's the only benefit you get.. well that should be enough, right?
I think you went over the line after laughing to her after the mixer thing.. It's times like these you can benefit the situation and ask chicks out. So easy to pick up there and just go you know 'I must help you out.. no no I'll help you out' and when she refuses and starts cleaning up you just go there and help.. then ask.. 'pretty bad day huh?.. So why don't we make it a happy ending.. say I buy you a cup of coffee?' .. excellent opportunity!
She immediately thinks you're a good guy to help her out and talk nice, she feels like clumsy idiot.. that's the moment when you strike.
I'm definitely an opportunist. But not in a bad way, it sounds like it's a bad thing. But you guys know, I believe foolishly that I'm the good guy, and eventually I'll get my break in things and start rolling.. like 'good things happen to those who wait'.. being patient and all that. So, meanwhile I try to be nice to everyone, extremely polite. You never know what's going to happen, maybe that person you help or save his/her day, be polite and good guy.. you never know.. you might benefit greatly after few years you go into job interview and there that person is! Or some other opportunities may come down the line. This doesn't mean you should think people as objects that you want to benefit from. But think it like good things happens to good guys some day. And if not.. well it's free and it makes you feel good, and if that's the only benefit you get.. well that should be enough, right?
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