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  • #16
    Originally posted by Starchild
    Not giving a ****, hun, would make you asexual. As a bi, aren't you giving one to anything on two legs?
    Actually asexual's probably the best way to describe me these days.

    Do you like to touch men? Do you like to be touched by men?
    That's not a particularly good way to go about it, some people don't like touching people period or being touched -- but could still be gay.
    "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
    Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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    • #17
      Im sorry. Im not there and havent came out yet maybe.


      But how can you not know about your sexuality? I think when I was 13 and brushed up against a girl my age in the pool one day. I kinda knew what I wanted. This is my expierence. But serouisly how do you not know?

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      • #18
        Oh, that's kind of you, but don't be sorry for lil' o me. Trust me, a quick end was for the best. Much much better than something actually developing and THEN finding out about this guy's issues. All the issues.

        Really, I'm over my absolutely horrifying first date. Don't let my stories stop you!

        Believe me, I'm over it.

        Even if it was only last year.

        and I can't look at him now.

        and I spent hours with a friend the next day, wondering and crying and hating him, myself, and everyone else.

        god...the universe sucks..

        I hate life....

        But really, I'm FINE!!

        *runs off to eat chocolate ice cream and Prozac*
        Exult in your existence, because that very process has blundered unwittingly on its own negation. Only a small, local negation, to be sure: only one species, and only a minority of that species; but there lies hope. [...] Stand tall, Bipedal Ape. The shark may outswim you, the cheetah outrun you, the swift outfly you, the capuchin outclimb you, the elephant outpower you, the redwood outlast you. But you have the biggest gifts of all: the gift of understanding the ruthlessly cruel process that gave us all existence [and the] gift of revulsion against its implications.
        -Richard Dawkins

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        • #19
          thespark.com says I'm only 30% gay, that's 9% less than the average guy who thinks himself straight.

          Now I know the truth...

          How do I not know faded? Because I was brought up in a world where it was assumed I was straight. Brushing up against a girl and enjoying it does not necessarily mean you're not attracted to men as well.
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          "We confess our little faults to persuade people that we have no large ones." - François de La Rochefoucauld

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          • #20
            Originally posted by faded glory
            Im sorry. Im not there and havent came out yet maybe.

            But how can you not know about your sexuality? I think when I was 13 and brushed up against a girl my age in the pool one day. I kinda knew what I wanted. This is my expierence. But serouisly how do you not know?
            It's just really confusing for a lot of people.

            What if you brush up against your best friend and "knew"? Or maybe just the odd random guy? It's not an absolute attraction to a sex, you just wonder if it's a phase or whatever.

            It seems so natural when it's a woman but if it's a guy, you just start wondering what the hell is wrong with you until you get over with it and deal with it.

            thespark.com says I'm only 30% gay, that's 9% less than the average guy who thinks himself straight.

            Now I know the truth...
            Yeah, I got something ridiculous like that too.
            "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
            Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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            • #21
              When I took thespark.com's gay test, I got a score of 90%. That puts me in the same catagory as Elton John and that Teletubbie.
              Exult in your existence, because that very process has blundered unwittingly on its own negation. Only a small, local negation, to be sure: only one species, and only a minority of that species; but there lies hope. [...] Stand tall, Bipedal Ape. The shark may outswim you, the cheetah outrun you, the swift outfly you, the capuchin outclimb you, the elephant outpower you, the redwood outlast you. But you have the biggest gifts of all: the gift of understanding the ruthlessly cruel process that gave us all existence [and the] gift of revulsion against its implications.
              -Richard Dawkins

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              • #22
                "It's just really confusing for a lot of people.

                What if you brush up against your best friend and "knew"? Or maybe just the odd random guy? It's not an absolute attraction to a sex, you just wonder if it's a phase or whatever.

                It seems so natural when it's a woman but if it's a guy, you just start wondering what the hell is wrong with you until you get over with it and deal with it. "


                I guess that clears it up a bit. But I guess I would never understand unless I was in those shoe's.

                But I can say (and I hang around ALOT of guys) I am not attracted in anyway sexually to them. Other than the normal male-bonding and friendship that goes on...theres nothing there. But then I can hang out with a bunch of good looking women, and cant keep my freakin jeans dry or sit still.lol

                Whatever Lorizeal. Just remember to close the closet door on your way. (it smells like mothballs and closetdank)

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                • #23
                  Sounds to me like you're hopelessly straight, faded.
                  "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
                  Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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                  • #24
                    Sounds to me like you're hopelessly straight, faded.


                    awwww the poor guy everyone now awwwwwwwwwwwwww



                    Question Asher is faded abnormal? is he like hopeless really?
                    “The Communist Manifesto was correct…but…we see the privileges of the capitalist bourgeoisie yielding…to democratic organizations…In my judgment…success lies in a steady [peaceful] advance…[rather]…than in…a catastrophic crash."Eduard Bernstein
                    Or do we?

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                    • #25
                      good luck finding out! Can't speak from experience, but I imagine it's not easy.
                      "Chegitz, still angry about the fall of the Soviet Union in 1991?
                      You provide no source. You PROVIDE NOTHING! And yet you want to destroy capitalism.. you criminal..." - Fez

                      "I was hoping for a Communist utopia that would last forever." - Imran Siddiqui

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                      • #26
                        Originally posted by blackice
                        Sounds to me like you're hopelessly straight, faded.


                        awwww the poor guy everyone now awwwwwwwwwwwwww

                        Huh?

                        Question Asher is faded abnormal? is he like hopeless really?
                        What the hell are you talking about...?

                        yes faded seems normal enough, aside from him using AOL.
                        "The issue is there are still many people out there that use religion as a crutch for bigotry and hate. Like Ben."
                        Ben Kenobi: "That means I'm doing something right. "

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                        • #27
                          yes too true
                          “The Communist Manifesto was correct…but…we see the privileges of the capitalist bourgeoisie yielding…to democratic organizations…In my judgment…success lies in a steady [peaceful] advance…[rather]…than in…a catastrophic crash."Eduard Bernstein
                          Or do we?

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                          • #28
                            Whoa... I was okay with faded before... but he uses AOL?

                            I... I just can't handle that...

                            How could he? Where are his brains??
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                            • #29
                              Just don't go looking for your older brother's handgun when you realize you're gay, like I did.

                              I'm glad the gun case was empty.
                              A lot of Republicans are not racist, but a lot of racists are Republican.

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                              • #30
                                I'm SO glad that handguns are banned in the UK...
                                Well, god knows how I did it but I got exactly 50% on the Channel4 gay test (can't remember my score on thespark one, probably ridiculously high) and it told me I was a perfectly happy, well-adjusted queer. I think my scream of 'what the ****? well-adjusted my ass!' contributed to my being banned from the school library...

                                Yes, I'm gay, but still none too comfortable with it. So sue my ass
                                "Love the earth and sun and animals, despise riches, give alms to every one that asks, stand up for the stupid and crazy, devote your income and labor to others, hate tyrants, argue not concerning God, have patience and indulgence toward the people, take off your hat to nothing known or unknown . . . reexamine all you have been told at school or church or in any book, dismiss whatever insults your own soul, and your very flesh shall be a great poem and have the richest fluency" - Walt Whitman

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