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  • #16
    14? Well, I don't know the girl, so it IS possible that we're talking an unusually mature young woman here who knows what she wants, but I'd say that's too young to make such a decision for your average 14 year old guy/gal. Insecurity, stupidity, ininformedness, the whole thing. From what I've heard, sex is a pretty intense happening, and it can be dangerous (STD's) so I think a minimum of maturity is in order.

    Not that he has to break off the relationship. he can be romantically involved with her, and refrain from sex for a year or two till she's 16. Could be a nice prrof of his love.
    Fire and ice and death awaiting. But he was steel, he was steel.

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    • #17
      I wish I had a sex life that people could interfere in.
      To us, it is the BEAST.

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      • #18
        14???

        With a 21 year old?

        Sounds like a peice of **** to me. Why doesn't he try dating a WOMAN instead of a GIRL?

        What a loser.
        I see the world through bloodshot eyes
        Streets filled with blood from distant lies.

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        • #19
          Regardless of whether or not this girl is mature enough to make rational decisions for herself, she is still a minor, and it is still illegal for this guy to make sexual contact with her. He shouldn't be doing it.

          A prior comment on this thread said that he should stay romantically involved and wait for her to turn 16 before having sex with her again. That is perhaps one of the better solutions to this problem. Like Rand Al'Tor said, it is a nice proof of commitment to her. No laws exist that prevent romantic relationships with minors, only sexual relationships.
          "Corporation, n, An ingenious device for obtaining individual profit without individual responsibility." -- Ambrose Bierce
          "Any society that would give up a little liberty to gain a little security will deserve neither and lose both." -- Benjamin Franklin
          "Yes, we did produce a near-perfect republic. But will they keep it? Or will they, in the enjoyment of plenty, lose the memory of freedom? Material abundance without character is the path of destruction." -- Thomas Jefferson

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          • #20
            A prior comment on this thread said that he should stay romantically involved and wait for her to turn 16 before having sex with her again. That is perhaps one of the better solutions to this problem. Like Rand Al'Tor said, it is a nice proof of commitment to her. No laws exist that prevent romantic relationships with minors, only sexual relationships.
            Nice thought...but lets be realistic. Listen to the way this ****head talks about this girl. Not as a person. Not as a potential wife, or even a girlfriend. He's talking about her like all she is a peice of ass. And guess what? That is all she is. If she pulled something like that, this type of guy is gone. He'll be at junior high school looking for another girl to take advantage of the next day.
            I see the world through bloodshot eyes
            Streets filled with blood from distant lies.

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            • #21
              Originally posted by drake


              Nice thought...but lets be realistic. Listen to the way this ****head talks about this girl. Not as a person. Not as a potential wife, or even a girlfriend. He's talking about her like all she is a peice of ass. And guess what? That is all she is. If she pulled something like that, this type of guy is gone. He'll be at junior high school looking for another girl to take advantage of the next day.
              Suppose you are right there. His maturity level probably sits at the age of 14 as well. Perhaps he takes advantage of these girls because he is too much of a BOY to be dating a woman. You are right. He does need to become a MAN and try to date a women instead.

              I heard him lamenting over the fact that the next time he'll get to see his girlfriend would be "that time of the month" (although, it was okay for getting head ).
              Oh yeah, what a ****head. If only I didn't forget that point before posting.
              "Corporation, n, An ingenious device for obtaining individual profit without individual responsibility." -- Ambrose Bierce
              "Any society that would give up a little liberty to gain a little security will deserve neither and lose both." -- Benjamin Franklin
              "Yes, we did produce a near-perfect republic. But will they keep it? Or will they, in the enjoyment of plenty, lose the memory of freedom? Material abundance without character is the path of destruction." -- Thomas Jefferson

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              • #22
                ??

                I assume noone except Gibsie know the guy and the girl we talking about here.
                We know nothing about how they meat or how ripe they are or whatever.

                You guys are really fast with negative judgements about ppl. u dont know.
                If it is no fun why do it?
                Live happy or die

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                • #23
                  A 14 year old cannot make important decisions regarding sex. I was 14 once, and I thought I could. I'm 21 now, and I understand why people said I wasn't old enough. There are many people who are 21 who can't make mature decisions.

                  4 years is not a long time. That 14 year old is 4 years removed from being 10 years old. As unfair as rules might seem when you're young, they are necessary.
                  To us, it is the BEAST.

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                  • #24
                    A 21 year old guy going after a 14 year old girl. That's called JAIL TIME HERE! I hope the bastard gets caught and thrown in the general population of a state prison where his new friends will show him what it's like to be taken advantage of.

                    Oh... by the way, I have a 13 year old daughter who will be turning 14 in a couple of months...
                    Keep on Civin'
                    RIP rah, Tony Bogey & Baron O

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                    • #25
                      Originally posted by Tom201
                      ??

                      I assume noone except Gibsie know the guy and the girl we talking about here.
                      We know nothing about how they meat or how ripe they are or whatever.

                      You guys are really fast with negative judgements about ppl. u dont know.
                      True that we don't know. But consider this...

                      I heard him lamenting over the fact that the next time he'll get to see his girlfriend would be "that time of the month" (although, it was okay for getting head ).
                      As Gibsie said, that's enough to make you sick. He SHOULD have said "Man, she's only 14!"

                      I still emphasize on the fact that IT IS STILL ILLEGAL!!! I can't believe that people are condoning this, or going easy on him. It would be nice if he could be romantically involved, wait until 16, etc, etc. but I doubt he could wait that long.
                      "Corporation, n, An ingenious device for obtaining individual profit without individual responsibility." -- Ambrose Bierce
                      "Any society that would give up a little liberty to gain a little security will deserve neither and lose both." -- Benjamin Franklin
                      "Yes, we did produce a near-perfect republic. But will they keep it? Or will they, in the enjoyment of plenty, lose the memory of freedom? Material abundance without character is the path of destruction." -- Thomas Jefferson

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                      • #26
                        Gibsie is this guys friend Tom. And you can tell hes pretty disgusted by him (His own friend!).

                        I've known guys that have gone with girls way too young for them, and I never had respect for them because of it.

                        Theres not much positive I can say about guys like that, sorry Tom.
                        I see the world through bloodshot eyes
                        Streets filled with blood from distant lies.

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                        • #27
                          It seems that girl is general seen as a victim of sexual abuse?
                          How so? When I read it right, she agreed to have sex with him and continues to do so. So where is the problem?

                          IMO she is more a victim of overprotecting ppl., trying to violate her privacy and personal freedom.

                          And for laws: They are discussable, not everyone agrees on them. There are always some that need to be changed.
                          If it is no fun why do it?
                          Live happy or die

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                          • #28
                            Nobody's denying that she chooses it. But the problem is that in light of what Gibsie said, she is being used. Isn't that as bad as sexual abuse?

                            I wonder what her parents think about this.
                            "Corporation, n, An ingenious device for obtaining individual profit without individual responsibility." -- Ambrose Bierce
                            "Any society that would give up a little liberty to gain a little security will deserve neither and lose both." -- Benjamin Franklin
                            "Yes, we did produce a near-perfect republic. But will they keep it? Or will they, in the enjoyment of plenty, lose the memory of freedom? Material abundance without character is the path of destruction." -- Thomas Jefferson

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                            • #29
                              Its not sex abuse...its a lowlife peice of crap taking advantage of a girl. A girl, not a woman.

                              Its a moral question as much as it is a legal one Tom.
                              I see the world through bloodshot eyes
                              Streets filled with blood from distant lies.

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                              • #30
                                Originally posted by Tom201
                                It seems that girl is general seen as a victim of sexual abuse?
                                There is a reason for that... SHE IS A VICTIM OF SEXUAL ABUSE!

                                IMO she is more a victim of overprotecting ppl., trying to violate her privacy and personal freedom.
                                No... she is a victim of a sexual preditor... who should be thrown in jail for violating the law

                                And for laws: They are discussable, not everyone agrees on them. There are always some that need to be changed.
                                Most people do agree on this one for good reason. There is a reason that these laws were enacted in the first place... to keep older men from taking advantage of little girls.
                                If he loved her so much, he could wait... which we know he won't because all he wants to do is take advantage of her.
                                Keep on Civin'
                                RIP rah, Tony Bogey & Baron O

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