Any ideas on winning a girl's heart?

[orange]

Speer - if you back off she may like you more. Don't hang on her, just say hi once in a while, gradually build your way up to asking her out, take no for an answer if that's the answer, and just say that if she'd ever like to go out, you'd love to do something with her....

then let that be that. If nothing happens, nothing'll happen. So just let it goooooo.......

Best advice I can give you.

And stop trying to do everything you can to please her.

"You look nice today" tends to lose it's meaning after 1000 times, hearing it once a day every day or more...no matter what simile or metaphor you use.

[devilmunchkin]

be honest and be yourself
all lies and facades you put over yourself will eventually come out into the open anyway

[Tuberski]

Teh way it always seemed to work for me........get a diferent girlfriend, then you won't be able to keep her away.

[Caesar the Great]

ask for a ****... whats the worst that can happen? she'll say no....

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

...accuse you of sexual harrassment, take out an injunction against you and get your name of a sex offenders register.

[Grrr]

Originally posted by Albert Speer
i was always wondering about that banana ****. it just seemed to crop up recently. i dont get whats so funny about it but people still use it.

It's tradition.

It is our moral obligation to keep it going, for all those that have left Apolyton.

Goodluck with your (to be) girlfriend.

[monolith94]

What is she, a raffle???

My advice? Be really laid back. relaxed. I'm talking MELLOW. The worst you can do is worry; the worst you can do is become neurotic. See "Play it again Sam", for elaboration.

[November Adam]

Originally posted by SlowwHand
Exactly. Dealer's choice.

Kay Slowhand I'll see your kidney, and raise you an eyebrow!

(Body part Poker.... Albert started it! )

[blackice]

Just be you If it is going to happen and stay happening just be you...

[TCO]

Ask her out on a date. If she says no, move on to another one. She will respect that. Don't mope. Just go out with the ones who say yes.

Oh and grow some nads, leather jacket boy.

[DarkCloud]

Ha! Ha!
*Is this by any chance the same girl that I know

Dont worry, Albert, some of us were meant to be pitiful.
Expect to be disappointed and you won't be disappointed.

see the problem is that a lot of guys like her. My guess is about ten guys like her right now and these arent losers either. She's not interested in any of them nor me because she's too concerned with her school work and church

Exactly my problem

You could try the same thing I have been- just wait and DONT ASK HER OUT AGAIN and hope that she will eventually come around to you... She probably won't, but, remember, if she doesn't really like you- then she wont have any fun with you if you go out on a date and then you won't enjoy it either and there will be no future (marriage, etc.)

Just let things take care of themselves.

Oh- and If you get any omens- try to follow them... If you want any more explanations on THAT subject, please ask me to post a follow up

[orange]

Originally posted by DarkCloud
....(marriage, etc.)

Top ten ways to muck it up completely and scare her away for ever...

1) Mention the word "Marriage" on the first date

[Worthingtons]

Well the last girl's heart I won was when I said 'You dont want me to spend the night alone in a double bed do you?' . Felt good about that ever since... even if it was a cheesy thing to say.


No, I'll come up with a cruel yet serious suggestion - Lower Your Standards!
If she's perfect mate then it's only natrual that'll be able to get someone 'perfect' herself, and however nice you may be, it probably wont be enough. Best thing is to find somebody else more in your range, and then she'll probably find it a lot easier to talk to you anyhow. Although dont set out to do that exactly as it's not really 'fair' on the other person.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Well this was a shock. Speer is on the boards again, and not 3 days later we have a moaning, whining, teen-angst thread.

[JohnT]

Quantity over quality, eh Rothy?