Concept of Coming Out

[Blackwidow24]

I see more and more of these I am gay threads..

You just need to realize Mr.Fun that not everyone will accept this no matter how much you argue with them about it
..Not everyone will accept the fact that you like the same gender. I personally have no problem with it..but some people where raised with the understanding that this is wrong.. I have heard it coming from my own parents.."It's Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve"

I don't believe in condeming people because they are different, I do not have the right to judge you unless I want you to judge me!

The whole concept of coming out is so that people will know who you really are..you can't live your whole life just going through the motions so that everyone else BUT YOURSELF can have that certain peace of mind of knowing who you really are and that you are secure in this revelation...

All I have to say is....
YOU GO !!


Be yourself..if they don't like it they can kiss your arse

[Solly]

Originally posted by Guynemer


Who the hell are you to say that?

Boddington's.

[Blackwidow24]

Boddington you are the last person to argue with Mr.Fun...you can't even pick a handle and stick with it at least he knows who he is!!!

[faded glory]

BW: its not that any of us care if there gay or not. Most of the time we can tell bye the way Homo's act..and when people like Rosie Odonnel come out of the closet. Most of us could care less...I mean, its somthing we just dont care about. It doesnt effect our life. Its not about acceptance, its about charecter.

[Giancarlo]

As long as they stay to themselves and don't bother me I will accept it because it doesn't affect me. This is the same kind of reasoning many people use in the real world. "As long as it doesn't affect me, I don't care"... and I think it is the most proper reasoning to follonwg... don't you agree?

[Solly]

Originally posted by Giancarlo
As long as they stay to themselves and don't bother me I will accept it because it doesn't affect me. This is the same kind of reasoning many people use in the real world. "As long as it doesn't affect me, I don't care"... and I think it is the most proper reasoning to follonwg... don't you agree?

Yes, the rational people do..I do.

And it makes me laugh Ming flinging accusations of bigot around - he votes Republican.

[Ming]

Originally posted by Boddington's
Yes, the rational people do..I do.
And it makes me laugh Ming flinging accusations of bigot around - he votes Republican.

And what is the "rational" thought process of your last statement.
Are you making an ignorant statement that all Republicans are bigots... just typical nonsense from stewie.

You are the one making bigoted posts... so look in the mirror instead of pointing your finger at straw dogs...

[Lefty Scaevola]

It is illogical that straight men would object to gay men being around, commonplace, and in the open. It:
provides a population of productive (currently more so than average men) persons who do not much increase population growth (children are all comsumption and not much production);
B. Provide a main source of rich bachelor uncles;
c. Reduces competetion for gorgeous naked supermodels and other females.

Likewise for hetro women & lesbians(switching gender on nouns above).

Of course part C does not apply for Heteros veiwing homosexuals of the opposite sex.


My God is not as STUPID as those of your's that condemn Homoseuxality. he is a god of rationality (albeit somewhat alien to us pitiful humans) and SUCCESS. Not a LOSER god of of irrational bias and failure.

[Guynemer]

Originally posted by Giancarlo
As long as they stay to themselves and don't bother me I will accept it because it doesn't affect me. This is the same kind of reasoning many people use in the real world. "As long as it doesn't affect me, I don't care"... and I think it is the most proper reasoning to follonwg... don't you agree?

Define "stay to themselves," Sparky. Here's a little advice, before you get started: be very, VERY careful.

[Blackwidow24]

Originally posted by faded glory
BW: its not that any of us care if there gay or not. Most of the time we can tell bye the way Homo's act..and when people like Rosie Odonnel come out of the closet. Most of us could care less...I mean, its somthing we just dont care about. It doesnt effect our life. Its not about acceptance, its about charecter.

What do you mean it's about character??

Who wants choclate Icecream!?

What does this tell me about your character???

To Mr.Fun this a very sensitive issue obviously...

and to me it seems that you guys accepting the fact that he is gay and leaving him alone about it is very important.

[Blackwidow24]

Originally posted by Giancarlo
As long as they stay to themselves and don't bother me I will accept it because it doesn't affect me. This is the same kind of reasoning many people use in the real world. "As long as it doesn't affect me, I don't care"... and I think it is the most proper reasoning to follonwg... don't you agree?

So what you are saying is that people who like the same gender don't have a right to interact with you??? Even though we are all human?? So tell me as long as they don't bother you, you can survive..what would you do if they did bother you?? would your whole world be spun outof wack..would you go crazy and pull your hair out..if a gay person bothered you, would you become gay too??? Hmmmmm..Maybe I am just taking what you said the wrong way?

[mindseye]

The removal of homosexuality from the DSM was an act of acquiescing to public pressure rather than an act based on research.

Yeah, right! Sheesh, even the People's Republic of China has given up on that one, and I don't think the CCP is very vulnerable to gay lobbying groups. When Chinese studies showed that gay Chinese men (1) were able to form long-term romantic unions just like straights, (2) had no social problems other than those caused by ostracism, Beijing changed the law. Sometimes I think gay marriage will happen here before it does in the US!

Lesbians have it easy in that regard though with in vitro fertilization. I'd like to see a gay couple pull off the same trick.

Easy! In vitro fertilization of one partner's sister. The resulting child is pretty darn close to being the genetic offspring of both daddies.

[MrFun]

The animosity, the ignorance, and maybe even some hatred from some of the people on Apolyton saddens me.
Those people do not even have the decency to respect at least the human feelings that homosexuals and bisexuals have -- the same feelings heterosexuals have.

But anyway, thanks for your kind words, Blackwidow24.

And Boddington, two gay men can choose which of the two would donate sperm to a surrogate mother. THAT is how gay men can produce their own biological children.

[Solly]

I think the gay men are therefore being selfish; thinking only of themselves and totally disregarding the quality of life of the child born "to" them.

[MrFun]

Originally posted by Boddington's
I think the gay men are therefore being selfish; thinking only of themselves and totally disregarding the quality of life of the child born "to" them.

I do not believe that sexual orientation of the parents affects the quality of life the child will live.

The homophobia in the society is what makes the life of a child of gay parents difficult and painful.