Blacks are disenfranchised because they are the other in this society.
Could it be that they have this "gangsta" attitude towards their daily life (speaking about only those who use this N-word), or that this is how they are preceived?
Respect for a community begins with a community respecting themselves. Perhaps they do, but then why are many black dominant communities generally run down, drug filled, and full of violence? What kind of respect evolves from calling each other a word that my ancestors used as derogatory remark? What does that say? It says to me, a white male, that they have finally yielded to the opperssion that has been placed upon them over the hundreds of years that they were treated as though they where worth less than dirt!
Why not stick with "bother"? That was so much better.
In any society there will be a group that is labeled as different. That's the way it works.
That's the way it works. The fact that you ask me to not use a word that was good enough for my father in the way he used it is to say sell what little of your subculture you have left.
It's like asking a chinese american to stop speaking chinese.
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