Attention all you players

[Drake Tungsten]

If they are moving on then its time they passed on there information to the upcoming generation.

True dat.

[DaShi]

Times are changing. The old tricks just aren't working anymore.

[self biased]

yeah. you actually have to be clever these days.

[Bosh]

Originally posted by self biased
yeah. you actually have to be clever these days.

Or move to east asia.

[DaShi]

That's what I did.

[self biased]

not all of us have that luxury, squirrel.

[Flip McWho]

Yeah I can't move to east asia

[Drake Tungsten]

Or move to east asia.

[Bosh]

Yeah I can't move to east asia

You can when you finish college. But for some reason hagwon bosses here seem to hate Kiwi accents so they pay them less then Americans and Canadians

[Sprayber]

The devil is in the detail. Listen to a girl, learn the things they like either by talking to them or by what they say to others. Going back to what self biased said about being able to tell stories, is that girls like guys that have lived an interesting life. I seem to have a story for most occasions but I try not to dwell on other women when Im talking to one.

But before you ever can get anywhere with one, you will have to do something extremely hard for many guys and that is to strike up a conversation. You don't have to have a lot of fancy words, just dig for something to connect with her on. That may mean covering a lot of ground but eventually you will find something.

[Flip McWho]

Thank you Sprayber, first proper bit of advice, besides self biaseds little bit.

[Sprayber]

Oh and don't ever just concentrate on one. Spread your interest around. Before long you will have many different ones that you are familiar with. If your patient, you can get it to where you can pick and choose. For you impatient types, you will always find one or two chicks that just want to have sex. Cherish those rare finds.

[lightblue]

Uhm, this works for me.

Go out, pick the girl you are going to pick up that night, get eye contact, smile. If she smiles back, walk over and have a chat (maybe a dance if it's that sorta place), have a bit of a snog, walk her home, give her your number and have her begging for more when she calls you the next day...

This never used to work for me until about 6 months ago and now it seems to happen when I am not trying. I think it might be purely confidence based (and the expertise of getting rejected x times over the last 10 years or so ). Being confident about your own body helps a lot, so deos having a sense of rythm.

[Urban Ranger]

Volunteer work is excellent. Not only you can talk with the women naturally, but they are rather compassionate as well.

An added bonus is volunteer work boosts your self-confidence.

[Makeo]

I've found you just have to be incredibly handsome, then you don't have to do anything. They come to you.