One Down...

[notyoueither]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi


I've had much worse breakups... She still cares about me, enough so to try to break the news as soft as she could, yet still get her point across. She didn't try to hurt me like others have. She said I treated her well, and when it comes down to it, that's the most important thing if you can't work something out.

I'll miss her though. She's treated me better than anyone else.

I am both happy and sorry to hear about that, Ben.

Good luck with the other fish in the sea.

[notyoueither]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
I'm just giving you guys snippets from my abbreviated playlist (at my parents' house that I've managed to collect in the last 2 weeks).

But what number are we at?

[KrazyHorse]

I told you. 5.

Going to get 6 and 7 now (and take a bathroom break)

[Ben Kenobi]

In all seriousness dude, you are going about this the wrong way. Women don't react well to being pursued, no matter what they say. But if she thinks for one moment that you are really interested in someone else, bingo - reverse jealousy will set in and she'll claw her way back.

And how fair is this to the other girl?

If this doesn't work then she really ISN'T interested in you and if thats's the case then there's NOTHING you can do about it (or should do....do not wind up in a relationship where you love a woman more than she loves you....there won't be a happy ending)

That's like the old adage, don't sleep with someone who's problems are worse than your own. Somebody has to end up on the short stick, regardless of the occasion. You can't both have the best life. I'd rather get burned than miss out on a wonderful girl.

[notyoueither]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
I told you. 5.

Going to get 6 and 7 now (and take a bathroom break)

Good. You have some catching up to do.

[Essayo]

Originally posted by Kull


Women don't react well to being pursued, no matter what they say. But if she thinks for one moment that you are really interested in someone else, bingo - reverse jealousy will set in and she'll claw her way back. If this doesn't work then she really ISN'T interested in you and if thats's the case then there's NOTHING you can do about it (or should do....do not wind up in a relationship where you love a woman more than she loves you....there won't be a happy ending)

As a female.....I'm going to have to agree. Seriously as f***** up as it sounds, its quite true. I broke up with an ex over a year ago, and then when i heard he was hooking up with someone else i got jealous - but then when he wanted me back recently i didn't want to know about it.

[KrazyHorse]

Halfway through 5.
EDIT: halfway through 6, I mean.

[Kull]

Originally posted by Ben Kenobi


And how fair is this to the other girl?

You don't have to be a scumbag. Find some other girl you like as a friend and do platonic things with her. And gauge the reaction from the old girlfriend....if she ignores it, you've learned something....but if she constantly asks about your new "friend" - bingo...you learned something else!

That's like the old adage, don't sleep with someone who's problems are worse than your own. Somebody has to end up on the short stick, regardless of the occasion. You can't both have the best life. I'd rather get burned than miss out on a wonderful girl.

Not to be cruel, but it doesn't sound like your current method of placing women on pedestals is getting you anywhere.

Here's the rule. WOMEN DO THE CHOOSING. Your only task is to figure out how to get chosen by one you want. Which isn't always easy, but that's life.

[Tingkai]

We need to rename this thread. It should be called: What to do with your Ex.

[Kull]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
Halfway through 5.
EDIT: halfway through 6, I mean.

KH, You are THE MAN (you b@astard! now I'm getting thirsty!)

[KrazyHorse]

Not bad, Tingkai...

EDIT: how 'bout those LEAFS!

[notyoueither]

As long as thery don't win anything, everything will be stable in the universe.

[KrazyHorse]

And if they do?

They've got a chance this year.

Do you think god will just end things when Quinn lifts the Cup?

[notyoueither]

Not end things, just upturn a lot.

[Kull]

Just popped one meself (but I definitely won't go past two!)

P.S. If God wanted to end it, the Cubs would've played the Sox in the Series

Essayo: We must've dated at some point in the past.....