**** you too, God.

[Bereta_Eder]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison


I pride myself on my philosophy and logic. Need I say more

To make PH freak further:

To enter that gate and bolt it, to run after her, take her by the waist and, without a word, drag her to her large widow's bed, that was what you would call being a man! That was what my grandfather would have done, and what I hope my grandson will do! But I stood there like a post, weighing things up and reflecting ...

[st_swithin]

She might be the one with whom you will have the most profoundly moving relationship of all time. You can take a risk or you can play it safe.

Better to have loved and lost? Better to have sunk or swum? Better to regret the things you did or to regret the things you didn't?

[Guest]

There's now a small of my mind that has been transformed into a srhine to Guynemer .
On a more personnal note, I was in a very similar situation. Although my instinct would be to tell you like others to look elsewhere, it took me a couple of months of "sticking" around my current gf once she was aware I was attracted till she passed her "doesn't want to be in relationships" phase.
I know a few other close friends who had to wait a bit and it ended very well.
But don't get deluded : during that period, it is a good idea to look around, not focus, take it lightly and otherwise act as if you're not interested in a serious relationship even look elsewhere.

[TCO]

Lor, move the **** on. It is obvious that you care for her romantically and it is not reciprocated. go find someone who will reciprocate.

IOW grow a ball.

[TCO]

Would you rather be the guy who is St Swithin's sexless best freind, hanging around her but not getting any action. Or her boyfriend. Ditch the *****. Find someone who will love you romantically.

[Japher]

If you want to know if she is interested, but don't want to ask, develop the habit of taking your clothes off when ever she enters the room. "Ooops my pants fell down again!"

[Imran Siddiqui]

Better yet, just walk around naked all the time .

[st_swithin]

Originally posted by TCO
Would you rather be the guy who is St Swithin's sexless best freind, hanging around her but not getting any action. Or her boyfriend. Ditch the *****. Find someone who will love you romantically.

Hey! Don't go insulting Lorizaellike that! He probably has good taste in friends.

I shouldn't have used my analogy - I'm a geek and mostly insane; two qualities which make any experience I've ever had a poor metaphor for life.

Give it a go - what the he11. I live vicariously through normal people.

[TCO]

Ask yourself this: Is this chick really being YOUR freind by letting you hang around something you are not going to get. If she wanted the best for you, she would encourage you to move on. Face it, there is some part of her that appreciates the attention. I know. I've been in the inverse situation...

[TCO]

Originally posted by st_swithin


Hey! Don't go insulting Lorizaellike that! He probably has good taste in friends.

I shouldn't have used my analogy - I'm a geek and mostly insane; two qualities which make any experience I've ever had a poor metaphor for life.

Give it a go - what the he11. I live vicariously through normal people.

Babe, I am on his side. You are on the chica's side.

[st_swithin]

Why? Because I have no penis? This ain't Red Rover, dude.

[Japher]

Why? Because I have no penis?

No, because your a disgruntled feminazi who always rants on about how much you hate men...

Lorizael should just write her name on his shoes and hopes that she notices

[Bereta_Eder]

Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui


Better yet, just walk around naked all the time .

With a big erection and saying: "Oh it's not you.. don't mind me..."

[st_swithin]

Why Mr. Limbaugh, I'm taken quite aback.

[Sikander]

Originally posted by st_swithin
I thought that guys never had female friends - just girls they haven't managed to fvck...yet. ;P

But seriously, if you're that anxious to start a physical, romantic relationship with your BEST FRIEND, I'd reassess that friendship, because it obviously doesn't mean as much to you anymore. You've stated that all her relationships have ended, at best, poorly. Yet you think you're going to be different.

My best friend is a guy, and the only reason we're still best friends is because we've had the same conversation - great, he loves me, I'm the girl he's just realised he's always needed, blah blah blah.

Well, we had to get over it, and thankfully, we did. We need our friends more than another potential ex. Romance is very good way to louse up a great friendship. Finding people to be intimate with - they're a dime a dozen. Some of 'em even make a career of it. Finding people you can really communicate with and understand - I can count the ones I know on my hands.

Good post.