So what is the best way to pick up women?

[Lazerus]

Nah you're not my type
Maybe its just the women at my college
try a cheesy one-liner, women love these when they're drunk :
ok im here, what were your other 2 wishes

[ceroomaster]

I got some business cards printed that said: "Smile if you want to sleep with me" on them with my name & mobile number on the back. I will admit that I was not tremendously successful (2/40), but it was great fun watching them tryng to keep back the smile, and was an excellent ice-breaker. It earned me many new friends. If I was single at the moment I would try this again...

BTW, going up and just asking for sex might be a bit of a silly thing to do IMHO, I've seen many get slapped for trying that...

[reds4ever]

Originally posted by Kropotkin
Actually try to act like you think of them as human individuals instead of pieces of meat there for you pleasure is one way. Considering how few men that tries to pick up women that has (or tries to look like they have) this attitude it might work.

save the schmooz for the ladies, that sort of BS won't wash around here

[Jon Miller]

I wish I knew

Jon Miller

[Ted Striker]

Originally posted by reds4ever


save the schmooz for the ladies, that sort of BS won't wash around here

About the asking them for sex thing, I've always heard people talk about going to bars and asking every girl there for sex. The theory is that most will slap you but one will always say yes.

However, I have NEVER known ANYONE who has ever tried this.

[Spiffor]

Diss : I am not the same age as you, but I had tremendous trouble finding girls until recently too. And the thing that worked for me was to have an excuse to be alone with the girl for a rather long time (a night). I didn't jump on her at all, but we rather talked lengthly. One week later, she became my girlfriend (and remains so).

I'm not very good looking and had tons of comlexes until recently. But with some effort put on clothes, haircut and smile, most of these complexes went away, giving me enough self-confidence for the plan to work.

[orange]

two words...

Eye...Contact...

I've learned you can pick up girls from across a room so long as you know just how to look at them, long enough to let them know you're interested, but short enough to not be leering.

[FrustratedPoet]

Originally posted by orange
two words...

Eye...Contact...

You mean you hypnotise women into dating you?

[orange]

gotta do what you gotta do

[The Templar]

The Templar's surefire method (but last attempted by him in the mid 90s)

(1) Go to club (preferably a club actually priced within your income bracket with a bit - just a bit - of a meatmarket rep).

(2) Locate group of at least 3 women who have not brought dates. A single pair will not separate. Odd numbers mean a complete pairing impossible, which mitigates the "stay here with us factor".

(3) Rate attractiveness level on standard social scale (I find blonde hair non-desirable but the rest of US loves it, so I have to look past my idiosyncratic tastes)

(4) Ask woman of mid-level attractiveness relative to group to dance/have a drink/whatever.

Never failed for me.

My theory behind this is that (1) mid-level attractiveness woman will be flattered that you asked her to dance as opposed to most attractive. (2) low-level attractiveness women now feel dynamic in club more favorable to them and so do not try to "latch on" with their friend whom you are separating from group.

Note However: (1) pick a group with women of mid-level attractiveness equal to your own sociatally determined level. (2) Go to a club within your income bracket - overshoot and your desirability obviously goes down. Undershoot and other males may resent your presence. (3) Raves have a completely different dynamic.

[Ted Striker]

Damn Templar has the skillz.

If you like the whole club scene.

Nice work.

[SlowwHand]

Has anyone said, "By their ears" yet ?

[Spiffor]

Wow, The Templar, this advice is impressive

[red_jon]

Umm, but why should there be a problem with just going for the person you find most attractive?

But then I guess guys don't function the same way as girls.

[SlowwHand]

Templar has it like a science experiment.