new OKC thread (yet another Savalog)

[Sava]

How do you have so much money without working?

1. family moneys
2. no housing costs
3. savings from previous work
4. frugal spending habits
5. no children/wife
6. disability payments
7. supplemental cash income (more so in the past)
8. haven't bought a car since 1998
9. no student loans or other debts
10. cell phones and service always free due to family plan being paid by my mom's employer

[FlameFlash]

CFC? I mean, I came back to poly searching for Beyond Earth stuff and nostalgia. I stayed because Sava is entertaining.

[Lorizael]

...wouldn't have to work a day for the rest of her life if she didn't want to...

Hey, so, uh, do you have any gay in you?

[Wiglaf]

He must have a lot of family money for that statement to be true?

[regexcellent]

Uh, Sava if you don't mind me asking, what is your disability? Considering how much you work out...

[Sava]

Hey, so, uh, do you have any gay in you?

I'd be open to a polyamorous situation as long as you bring two women with you.

However, with that many mouths to feed, we'd either need to live in a rural area or move to a state with a friendlier regulatory environment.

[Sava]

Uh, Sava if you don't mind me asking, what is your disability? Considering how much you work out...

It's not a physical disability.

I'm not sure what is officially listed. I also don't know what the DSM designation or diagnosis is. My doc worked that all out. I have a seizure disorder, depression, PTSD, anxiety, I had really bad agoraphobia for a decade... basically, my brain is fucked.

[Lorizael]

I'd be open to a polyamorous situation as long as you bring two women with you.

I'll let you know when I've managed one.

[Dr Strangelove]

1. family moneys
2. no housing costs
3. savings from previous work
4. frugal spending habits
5. no children/wife
6. disability payments
7. supplemental cash income (more so in the past)
8. haven't bought a car since 1998
9. no student loans or other debts
10. cell phones and service always free due to family plan being paid by my mom's employer

Hey, Wiggie said you hadn't worked for 16 years. Was he lying?

[Sava]

Not consistently. I'm not sure he could lie without knowing the truth. I've never posted my job history.

[FlameFlash]

Hey, so, uh, do you have any gay in you?

[Dr Strangelove]

Not consistently. I'm not sure he could lie without knowing the truth. I've never posted my job history.

So he's a lawyer. Is that it?

[Lorizael]

Underneath all the trolling, at least one aspect of Wiglaf is a lawyer.

[Sava]

So he's a lawyer. Is that it?

If I had to guess his profession, that would be it.

[Lorizael]

There's a new writer in my writing group, and I kind of want to bang her. Would that be weird? It would essentially be repeating my last romance, plus my ex is still in the group.

Desire to bang growing (had another writing session tonight). I'm struggling with creating an opportunity to ask this chick out. When I did this the first time around (asking out my ex, who was at the time just a member of my writing group), I had her phone number because she was giving me rides to and from our writing sessions (a transparent ploy I had engineered essentially for the purpose of getting close to her, because I was perfectly content taking the bus). So when I asked her out, I just called her up on the phone.

This time around, I don't have the chick's phone number, so I have no easy way to talk to her alone. We all stagger in at different times. And then at 9, when Panera closes, we all leave at once. That would seem to be the time, but it seems really awkward to, in front of everyone else, be like, "Hey chick, can I talk to you alone in this dark alley for a minute?" /me shrugs. I'm probably making things more difficult than they have to be.

Another consideration: When I asked out my ex originally, I'd only been with my writing group for a few months. If things had gone poorly, I would have just quit the group altogether and that would have been that. But now I've been with this group for 6 years. If I ask this chick out and she says no, or if I ask her out and we go on a few dates and then decide there's nothing there, what the **** happens next? How do I stop things from being awkward after that? I don't have (or just don't want to use) the option of simply leaving the group and never coming back.

I know, I'm thinking about this all too much. Blah.

Additional note: I have her email address and we are friends on Facebook. Does that change things?