Wedding Etiquette

[Lorizael]

I do laugh at my own misfortune, but it's in the delusional, cackling, Walter White at the end of "Crawl Space" kind of way. (I'm finally watching Breaking Bad.)

[Lorizael]

Probably secret wishes to hook up here being a wedding and all. I believe Lori is in deep ****. And he believes it's all his fault? Woh.

We've never hooked up before. She's engaged. And as far as she knows, I'm still in a committed, monogamous relationship. For all her faults, she's not the type to cheat or facilitate cheating.

[rah]

Hey, people that take responsibility for their own fortunes and can even laugh at some of the bad times aren't as bad off as they think they are.

[Nikolai]

Have you slept with her? Why?

Hell no. Problems are many. She's a prostitute/call girl my dad met and left my mum for. For starters.

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

Oh wow. Will she let you call her "Mum"?

[pchang]

Hell no. Problems are many. She's a prostitute/call girl my dad met and left my mum for. For starters.

For real? If so, she probably will still trade sex for money.

[onodera]

Hell no. Problems are many. She's a prostitute/call girl my dad met and left my mum for. For starters.

Will your dad divorce her if he finds you two in bed?

[SlowwHand]

Why don't you try the as yet untraveled path? Act like a man. Put on your big boy pants and wish them well.

[Lorizael]

Last evening, EBF decided to resume our conversation:

I have reconsidered and am amending my statement: unless you explicitly tell me not to, I will talk to you and interact with you. It won't be awkward unless we make it awkward. If you do explicitly tell me, of course I'll respect your wishes.

I was suffering from a migraine at the time and decided to sleep until, apparently, now instead of responding to her. Ugh.

[Colon™]

"Do whatever you ****ing want, it's your wedding"

[Colon™]

Or a similar message that's phrased more subtly.

[Lorizael]

It's not her wedding. If it were, I simply wouldn't go. It's the wedding of a mutual friend.

[Colon™]

Then scrap the "it's your wedding" part.

[C0ckney]

just write something neutral that leaves the door open to some interaction (you can always minimise this at the actual event) but that gives the impression that it isn't that big an issue for you.

[Nikolai]

Why don't you try the as yet untraveled path? Act like a man. Put on your big boy pants and wish them well.

If that was to me, stop acting like a jerk. You don't know the story. A glimpse: I did. Was repayed with my dad emptying my bank accounts (he is constantly broke, had set up my account when I was a kid and failed to mention he still had access) and him hiding my step mum in my mum's bed when he had parental visit. The list of bad behavior is long. I've tried to fix things, but when he fails to acknowledge he's been acting badly(the money was never repayed for one, and worse things I have no intention of writing here has been done), and even demands I apologize to him for demanding he man up. He's declared he don't want anything to do with me before I apologize.