Trouble in paradise - relationship advice, please

[dannubis]

Yes she does.

Well, she is denying it, but she knows. Which annoys me because I need to talk about it. 2 years is not guaranteed even. It might be 1 year altogether. Or 2 months. It might even be a bit longer than 2 years but it's not very likely. I've had brain cancer. I don't like that everyone is hushing about it and acting as if it wasn't the case. I don't like that I have to understand everyone and their feelings. I know it's difficult for everyone but it's difficult for me too, and I'd like to talk about it, communicate.

Maybe she can't cope with the thought of loosing you and her distance is an effect of that ?
Anyway, I hope you can indeed talk about it with your wife...