Help Alby Get Sex. All Ideas Are Welcome.

[Fake Boris]

Yes, and then you overdid it, because you still don't know.

[Ecthy]

You sure are the right man to tell us that.

Ecthy likes this.

[Koyaanisqatsi]

Nah, man. You don't ask. You tell. You also assume the sale. You don't go asking, "Do you want to meet up, etc."? then worry about details later. You assume the sale. For example, instead of going, "Would you like to meet up sometime? (Yes) What would you like to do? (I don't know) We can get something to eat. Where do you want to go? (I don't know)", etc., you drive to the point, "I want to know when you are going to let me take you out..." as soon as she expresses some affirmation, you assume the sale in its entirety and pose the question of the details such, "Chinese or Italian?"

That's how you sell yourself.


I did your ***** **** for a decade and got nowhere. As soon I realize it's all about the game, all about marketing and psychology, I started getting numbers.

You notice I was texting her, right? You do realize I got her number with ease.

You only get that 'in' with the game.

I need a shower. And maybe some lye.

[Cort Haus]

Nah, man. You don't ask. You tell. You also assume the sale. You don't go asking, "Do you want to meet up, etc."? then worry about details later. You assume the sale. For example, instead of going, "Would you like to meet up sometime? (Yes) What would you like to do? (I don't know) We can get something to eat. Where do you want to go? (I don't know)", etc., you drive to the point, "I want to know when you are going to let me take you out..." as soon as she expresses some affirmation, you assume the sale in its entirety and pose the question of the details such, "Chinese or Italian?"

That's how you sell yourself.


I did your ***** **** for a decade and got nowhere. As soon I realize it's all about the game, all about marketing and psychology, I started getting numbers.

You notice I was texting her, right? You do realize I got her number with ease.

You only get that 'in' with the game.

And this is the secret of your success in forming emotional and physical relationships with women?

Oh.

[Al B. Sure!]

Is it not marketing and psychology?

I used to get ZERO until I realized how to use sales techniques. That got me the numbers and attention that dissipates after a week.

[Nikolai]

Yep. This is obviously working great for you.

[C0ckney]

you are still getting zero, blueballs. you got some bird's number and had a boring txt conversation with her.

[Zoetstofzoetje]

actually, blue balls is the one thing albie wouldn't know about; fortunately for him

[Pax]

I know jack **** about texting, sexting, and date texting. I recommend the in person or over the phone approach. It gives you a better way to read the other person. As far as confidence yes be confident but don't demand like that. It really does not work that way.

[Dinner]

Yes, yes. To Obiwan you listen.

Obi-Wan: But you cannot control it! This is a dangerous time for you, when you will be tempted by the Dark Side of the Force.

Yoda: Yes, yes! To Obi-Wan you listen. The cave! Remember your failure at the cave!

[Dinner]

This thread is depressing. I'm going to go **** my girlfriend.

[dannubis]

Nah, man. You don't ask. You tell. You also assume the sale. You don't go asking, "Do you want to meet up, etc."? then worry about details later. You assume the sale. For example, instead of going, "Would you like to meet up sometime? (Yes) What would you like to do? (I don't know) We can get something to eat. Where do you want to go? (I don't know)", etc., you drive to the point, "I want to know when you are going to let me take you out..." as soon as she expresses some affirmation, you assume the sale in its entirety and pose the question of the details such, "Chinese or Italian?"

That's how you sell yourself.


I did your ***** **** for a decade and got nowhere. As soon I realize it's all about the game, all about marketing and psychology, I started getting numbers.

You notice I was texting her, right? You do realize I got her number with ease.

You only get that 'in' with the game.

That may be the arab way dude but in your part of the world women are equal to men. (and want to be treated that way).

[Az]

I am going to go against the current here, and say that he was doing was a step in the right direction, and needs fine-tuning.
Nothing "arab" about what he did. Trust me, I know arab, and have seen it, and it is much sadder (the Blue-balls do apply though )

When you have a guy who is well built and and looks macho, behaving very softly/shyly on the beginning, it creates a dissonance. IMHO.

Me: What days you work at the other job?
Her: I quit why?
Me: Cause I'm picking a day after work when i'm getting you dinner
Me: What do you like?
Her: Dinner?
Her: Lol

Would have been OK face to face, with an ironic smile. txting not so much, because no body language - too aggressive, nothing to soften it. Double meanings are great, mixed messages not so much. You are not getting you dinner, you are are having dinner together.

for softening,
A winking smiley face perhaps?, like this?

;)

Me: That's just an excuse to chill with you
Her: Lol. Awwww

err, what? That's not an excuse, why you need an excuse? you ****ing creep. Again, a wink here may be what is needed. Do not overwink, though.

Me: Wednesday then I'm off but we'll meet up at five
Her: Lol.. Excuse me?

Whoa, whoa chill.

Her: I have classes on wed
Me: Thursday
No response

NOOOOOOO
what I get
"GROG WANT SEX. GROG WANT SEX! .... please please lets meet I will not rape you I promise


be cool. be suave. don't take yourself too seriously, don't take her too seriously.
YOU CAN DO THIS.

[MikeH]

Nah, man. You don't ask. You tell. You also assume the sale. You don't go asking, "Do you want to meet up, etc."? then worry about details later. You assume the sale. For example, instead of going, "Would you like to meet up sometime? (Yes) What would you like to do? (I don't know) We can get something to eat. Where do you want to go? (I don't know)", etc., you drive to the point, "I want to know when you are going to let me take you out..." as soon as she expresses some affirmation, you assume the sale in its entirety and pose the question of the details such, "Chinese or Italian?"

That's how you sell yourself.


I did your ***** **** for a decade and got nowhere. As soon I realize it's all about the game, all about marketing and psychology, I started getting numbers.

You notice I was texting her, right? You do realize I got her number with ease.

You only get that 'in' with the game.

Yeah, all us married guys, guys in long term relationships, women, people who've actually had sex don't know anything and you should stick with your own strategies that are working really well for you.

Ignorance is bliss.

I did notice you got her number with ease and I also noticed that within a few text messages you completely destroyed any chances with your approach. No wonder you never move past this stage if that is typical of your attitude and approach.

[dannubis]

Nothing "arab" about what he did. Trust me, I know arab, and have seen it, and it is much sadder (the Blue-balls do apply though )

The arab reference was to their tendency of not seeing women as their equal counterparts.