Originally posted by Riesstiu IV
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I'd also like to add the psychological effects of a culture that hinders academic achievement ingrained in the youth. There is a psychology of hopelessness and fatalism prevalent in the cities; a sentiment of why bother?
I can share the experience of a young man I know who I lived with (he was my room-mate's younger brother). I've known him since he was around 10 or so (he's 18 now). He's not a stupid kid. His one half-brother (the room-mate) went to the city's best high school with me (though he had the distinction of being the only one in our graduating class to not enroll in college); his other half-brother currently attends the University of Pittsburgh. This young man has the capacity to be as academically accomplished as his brothers, surely.
However, his attitude is wrong. Both his parents have dealt with substance abuse issues and have been imprisoned. His sister died in a car accident and a third half-brother (not related to the first two) is, to those who know him, an alright guy but he has done time.
This young man, let's call him K. for matters of convenience, has been diagnosed with and medicated for a number of psychological disorders, including ADHD and depression (there may be a role in his parents' history of substance abuse). As a student, he was capable when he applied himself but also is a follower and would act up in class for attention and popularity. This resulted in him being held back.
His more successful brothers and I (as well as his parents) have tried to encourage him to apply himself. When K. was younger, he talked about how he would go to college and law school and be a judge since he was intimately aware of the problems with the justice system and seemed to want to address them. In time, however, 'realism' set in and K. stopped talking about wanting to become a lawyer. He stopped going to school, had a child, started smoking weed, started to run the streets, and is currently in some juvenile detention school system somewhere in up-state PA.
The city sent over a therapist to talk to him and I witnessed these sessions in which K.'s answer to why he didn't go to school was that he was tired. He was tired from running the streets at night. Why is he running the streets? Why doesn't he just go to school and make something of himself? He would say, school is important but what's the point? Teachers don't care. The school doesn't care. Not like a diploma gets you a job that pays.
The allure of being a hoodlum like everybody else beat out the need for hard-work and determination to be a lawyer.
I know this is just one guy but it represents a greater general malaise that inflicts the youth today. I saw it growing up as well but something in me said this isn't right. Other kids don't come to the same conclusion that I did.
When your neighborhood looks like ****, why should you care about your community?
When your school doesn't even have enough textbooks, why should you care about education?
When your parents are doing time, what role models do you have?
When your friends are hustling on the corner, why should you be different?
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