hypothetically...

[Heraclitus]

Jaw is too big, skin too good (the girl in the pic is wearing makeup tho) otherwise she looks kind of similar. And dude there is no way in hell I'm supplying pics after this hate fest.

[Solver]

Heck, stuff like eugenics and abortion is only tangentially related to the issue at hand. It all comes down to one thing. That is, whether she views people as equal no matter what the race or not. It's quite clear that she doesn't, even if she puts it nicely. Supporting a "white Slovenia / country X" policy means, by definition, that race is seen as a valid way of distinguishing between people that are, in this case, "wanted" and "unwanted" in the country.

Only the most zealous racists would call themselves racists. Crap like advocating segregation, white-only immigration policies or blanket statements saying that ethnic/racial group X doesn't contribute to society - all of these are manifestations of racism with an attempt to phrase it in more civil terms.

Oh, and you guys being in a country that 97% white isn't an excuse. I'm in a country that's probably 99.5% white. I go for months without even seeing a black person in real life and I very rarely have contact with black people. Nonetheless, I find any views of black people being anything less than equal to be quite disgusting.

[Heraclitus]

Pfft, you just sound like someone who's infatuated and is desperately trying to make up excuses.

Never denied it. Come on imagine you are in happy relationship and suddenly you find she dosen't quite conform to modern ideas, could you just change the way you feel?

[Heraclitus]

Heck, stuff like eugenics and abortion is only tangentially related to the issue at hand. It all comes down to one thing. That is, whether she views people as equal no matter what the race or not. It's quite clear that she doesn't, even if she puts it nicely. Supporting a "white Slovenia / country X" policy means, by definition, that race is seen as a valid way of distinguishing between people that are, in this case, "wanted" and "unwanted" in the country.

Only the most zealous racists would call themselves racists. Crap like advocating segregation, white-only immigration policies or blanket statements saying that ethnic/racial group X doesn't contribute to society - all of these are manifestations of racism with an attempt to phrase it in more civil terms.

Oh, and you guys being in a country that 97% white isn't an excuse. I'm in a country that's probably 99.5% white. I go for months without even seeing a black person in real life and I very rarely have contact with black people. Nonetheless, I find any views of black people being anything less than equal to be quite disgusting.

Listen I'm not saying its an excuse. I'm saying that practically the difference between racist her and a imagined non-racist her is unlikley to ever come up so I may as well stick with the racist her.

[Boris Godunov]

[Solver]

+1

How the **** don't people get this? I'm supposed to sacrifice a happy relationship for PC? And I get in exchange what exactly?!?

Got morals? This isn't about PC. PC would be how you present this or another relationship to the world. This is about you being very close with someone whose views are contrary to morals of most of the society, including, as I'm sure, your own. You don't believe all that crap yourself.

[Guynemer]

Since Hera isn't supplying any pictures of his girlfriend, I guess I'll have to do it for him.



http://indianajones.wikia.com/wiki/Elsa_Schneider

Exactly what I was thinking.

Nazis plummeting to their death in Petra:

[Kitschum]

A woman acquaintance of mine is a Holocaust "skeptic" - not an outright denier in her own words. It led to a huge angry argument when I found out which seemed to really surprise her. I still wouldn't hesitate to take her out back. She's with someone though.

[Solver]

Never denied it. Come on imagine you are in happy relationship and suddenly you find she dosen't quite conform to modern ideas, could you just change the way you feel?

To modern ideas? No, wouldn't be a problem at all. But if I found out the person holds amoral and, to me, disgusting views - yes, quite so. I can't imagine being happy with someone that doesn't accept something that's one of the cornerstones of my moral system.

[Solver]

Listen I'm not saying its an excuse. I'm saying that practically the difference between racist her and a imagined non-racist her is unlikley to ever come up so I may as well stick with the racist her.

Yeah, you're just horny You're white, I guess all/most of your family and friends are also white, you're not about to move to Africa or anywhere with a significant non-white population, so I don't suppose there's much of a practical difference for you involved. So what you're saying is, you're willing to selfishly accept her racist stance because it will do no actual harm to you, while you get to bang her.

In that case, just be a man and say so. She's hot, you want to continue making hot sweet kinky applesauce love to her and will disregard problems of a moral nature as long as you're not harmed by it yourself.

[Ben Kenobi]

Never denied it. Come on imagine you are in happy relationship and suddenly you find she dosen't quite conform to modern ideas, could you just change the way you feel?

Depends on which head you are using Hera.

I've been disappointed by folks before, which makes it all the better when you actually get to know someone and find that they are better than you expected.

[Guynemer]

hot sweet kinky applesauce love

[Ben Kenobi]

This thread was orignaly just light banter between us, but now she's getting visibly concerned and uncomfortable since I keep asking these kinds of questions.

Why should she be uncomfortable? If you are going to be with her, you deserve to know.

She says she would not support forced deportation of blacks. She thinks Gypsies should not recieve any additonal aid beyond what a Slovenian would get if he was of the same social status. She says she would support a "white Slovenia/Austria/country where she lives" immigration policy.

Ugh. That's all I need to know.

She has no problem however with doctors performing abortion on the request of parents for children who have upwards of 90% chance of devloping a crippling or eventually fatal ilness.

So the lives of disabled people are less valuable than others?

[Heraclitus]

Depends on which head you are using Hera.

I've been disappointed by folks before, which makes it all the better when you actually get to know someone and find that they are better than you expected.

**** it isn't just horniness. Thou I will admit to it. I care for her, she helped me out throu some **** in my life a few months back, If I dump her without being convinced that she believes something really bad, I would feel like a coward conforming to society.

[Heraclitus]

Yeah, you're just horny You're white, I guess all/most of your family and friends are also white, you're not about to move to Africa or anywhere with a significant non-white population, so I don't suppose there's much of a practical difference for you involved. So what you're saying is, you're willing to selfishly accept her racist stance because it will do no actual harm to you, while you get to bang her.

In that case, just be a man and say so. She's hot, you want to continue making hot sweet kinky applesauce love to her and will disregard problems of a moral nature as long as you're not harmed by it yourself.

I'm saying no one is harmed by her beliefs.