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  • The Case Against Normalness (a rant)

    Should everyone have the opportunity to be "normal"? Should it be a decision?

    I used to make my livelihood off a company whose #1 product was for the treatment of ADHD, and that really irked me then and still does now. Not the fact that these behavior altering drugs exist, but the fact that the disease that it is prescribed to treat is over diagnosed. I won't even blame the doctors so much, the patient comes to them, in this case a parent, telling them that their son/daughter has been acting up and school and some 2 bit psychologist said she has ADD/ADHD or some such. So, the docs treat the whining parent with medication for their child, who will then be placed back into the "system" so that the "parent" can ignore them, tuck them in bed at night, get them up, dress them, drop at school, pick them up after soccer, throw food at them, and repeat all without killing their SSRI and vodka induced high.

    I remember Michael Phelp's mom saying they wanted to treat him for ADHD and she told them to go to hell, got him involved in something (swimming), and walla, we have an the best Olympic swimmer of all time. What would have happened had mom been popping zolof? If I dig I am sure I would find more cases like this, as I hear about one a month and it still ticks me off.

    Raise you kids parents! Not grandma or grandpa; they won't raise them like they did you, they will spoil them rotten the way grandparents are suppose to. Not the schools; they are too structured and will want you to drug them if they can't sit on their hands when bored.

    The same goes for people with depression or minor autism or social anxiety issues. You are different, should we reveal in this and not medicate to make it go away? Lets find away to harness these differences. In some ways I see this as the same in race diversity, we aren't giving people medication to change the color of their skin so why we are giving them pills to change a behavior that isn't particularly destructive (<- that's key)?

    I'm not saying take the suicidal of their meds, though it would appear some meds increase suicidal tendencies, but rather we should look at these "diseases" and ask ourselves if they are more obstacles that should be overcome or dealt with in ways other than medication. These days it seems some random pill is the easiest and best way. When we do this we not only rob a person of their personal identity, but we also rob them of their ability to ever become comfortable with who they really are. In addition, we rob society of all they would have offered if allowed to make terms without drugs; think Beethoven and depression...

    I'm just ranting because I learned that my cousin put her daughter on retalin or some such and my sister is thinking about doing the same with her daughter. I've seen these parents in action, and they are horrible. I've also have been in the presence of these kids when the parents aren't around, and they are angels. BEHAVE! They say, as the slowly stir the crushed tablets into their kool-aid. It angers me.
    Monkey!!!

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    My younger brother was misdiagnosed and put on Ritalin.
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    • #3
      :golfclap:
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      • #4
        Good rant, Japher.

        Drugs should be a last resort.

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        • #5
          I personally think the children of bad parents should be more drugged up and controlled by society.
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          • #6
            Drugs are great. Drugs are wondrous, magic things. I love drugs. They make me happy. They take away the anger.

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            • #7
              Drugs

              Smoke weed everyday, kids.
              John Brown did nothing wrong.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Japher View Post
                These days it seems some random pill is the easiest and best way. When we do this we not only rob a person of their personal identity, but we also rob them of their ability to ever become comfortable with who they really are. In addition, we rob society of all they would have offered if allowed to make terms without drugs; think Beethoven and depression...


                Cobblers. Used correctly, pills can be a great treatment for depression.
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                • #9
                  It seems like too much is expected of kids these days. Boys and girls are not the same, yet they are often treated as if they are. Boys need more time to run around and burn off their energy.
                  ...people like to cry a lot... - Pekka
                  ...we just argue without evidence, secure in our own superiority. - Snotty

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                  • #10
                    They say they changed the teaching style some time ago to adjust since girls were falling behind in class, boy are now falling behind in class. They shortened recesses, had less hands on and teamwork oriented projects, and discouraged competition while encouraging crying. It's about the same time that homosexuals started coming out of the closet too.
                    Monkey!!!

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                    • #11
                      Some people have actually noticed these problems, so I'm hopeful that things will change a bit before my boys start school.
                      ...people like to cry a lot... - Pekka
                      ...we just argue without evidence, secure in our own superiority. - Snotty

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                      • #12
                        Here here! Well said Japher!
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                        • #13
                          It's about time the fags got back in the closet!

                          Next thing you know they'll be demanding equal rights.
                          "I have never killed a man, but I have read many obituaries with great pleasure." - Clarence Darrow
                          "I didn't attend the funeral, but I sent a nice letter saying I approved of it." - Mark Twain

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Caligastia View Post
                            Some people have actually noticed these problems, so I'm hopeful that things will change a bit before my boys start school.
                            I didn't notice it until I worked for a company that sold the stuff (Concerta). It was are biggest drug and we made a lot, I was all how the hell does this stuff sell so well?

                            Josie's preschool teacher told us that Josie had "sensory issues" because she used to like to touch other kids. It was a problem because she would touch them with her teeth, aka biting, or "tap them really fast", aka slapping. Wifey and I laughed. When I was a kid I went through a biting phase, and my parents were never told to get me counseling. Instead I was told to "stop it or I'll rip out all of my teeth, so help me God I will!" Guess what? That worked for me, and worked for Josie too.

                            Maybe some of it is teachers just approaching parents not knowing how they're reaction will be. So, they go about it as if it's the kids problem and not a parenting problem. That's BS. We are, once again, fixing a symptom and not the problem. The problem is the death of family values and personal responsibility, not mutations caused by vaccinations or artificial sweeteners. We live in a "not my fault" society and are too quick to place blame than to take it. Personally, I don't care if you are part of the problem or part of the solution, just don't get in the way of those trying to fix the problem, than you're just a nuisance.
                            Monkey!!!

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Wezil View Post
                              It's about time the fags got back in the closet!

                              Next thing you know they'll be demanding equal rights.
                              Just as long as they don't start marrying each other and adopting kids

                              Maybe we can find a pill to fix them.
                              Monkey!!!

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