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  • #31
    Originally posted by Blaupanzer View Post
    As compared to what?
    As compared to staring at the ceiling.
    Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
    The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
    The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila

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    • #32
      Originally posted by Heraclitus View Post
      Young is a relative term. Here on poly we are all really old grumpy men with beer belies at heart. And about as mature as 14y old boys.
      What I mean is that you have no actual responsibilities. There's nothing between you two but feelings, so nothing that can't be repaired. If you're curious about it, I think go for it and just look upon it as an adventure. SOmeone said to break up before, but that is missing the point. It's not like you're wanting to leave her.

      On the other hand, you're (probably) only considering doing this because you are insecure. In that case I am calling your bluff. Besides planning to cheat is not really the correct way to do it.

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      • #33
        I'm not planing on cheating, I'm asking polytubbies whether I should cheat.

        There is a difference.
        Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
        The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
        The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila

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        • #34
          Originally posted by Heraclitus View Post
          I don't think I would ever consider letting a polytubbie set me up with someone.
          There are a few guys I'd trust for this... KH is probably one of them.

          But I'm also a complete idiot, so wtf does that tell you?

          anyways, just dump her and move on

          and for god's sake, dont be so needy and whiny... I need a girl, wah wah

          be a man and jerk off, exercise some self control and dont be a man-whore... if you dont like this girl, say ITS OVER *click
          To us, it is the BEAST.

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          • #35
            Originally posted by Sava View Post
            There are a few guys I'd trust for this... KH is probably one of them.

            But I'm also a complete idiot, so wtf does that tell you?

            anyways, just dump her and move on

            and for god's sake, dont be so needy and whiny... I need a girl, wah wah

            be a man and jerk off, exercise some self control and dont be a man-whore... if you dont like this girl, say ITS OVER *click
            Who says I'm not jerking off?
            Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
            The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
            The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila

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            • #36
              Originally posted by Heraclitus View Post
              I'm not planing on cheating, I'm asking polytubbies whether I should cheat.

              There is a difference.
              Go out and see what happens.

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              • #37
                Originally posted by Kitschum View Post
                Go out and see what happens.
                Good advice if I ever heard it.
                Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
                The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
                The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila

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                • #38
                  Originally posted by Heraclitus View Post
                  Who says I'm not jerking off?
                  maybe you are doing it wrong

                  or maybe your pr0n sucks
                  To us, it is the BEAST.

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                  • #39
                    Originally posted by Sava View Post
                    maybe you are doing it wrong

                    or maybe your pr0n sucks
                    Perhaps.
                    Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
                    The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
                    The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila

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                    • #40
                      the goal should be to get to a place where you satisfy your own needs and finding a nice chick is a bonus in life, not a necessity

                      IMO, if one is distressed at the thought of going without a woman, that indicates to me that the guy is a failure as a man

                      but then again, I might have a different set of standards then others
                      To us, it is the BEAST.

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                      • #41
                        Originally posted by Sava View Post
                        the goal should be to get to a place where you satisfy your own needs and finding a nice chick is a bonus in life, not a necessity

                        IMO, if one is distressed at the thought of going without a woman, that indicates to me that the guy is a failure as a man

                        but then again, I might have a different set of standards then others

                        Actually I agree with this position.
                        Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
                        The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
                        The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila

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                        • #42


                          the hardest part is rejecting someone who is just smokin hot, but that you know would just piss the ever loving **** out of you

                          but trust me, the confidence you get in saying no to girls like that is awesome... and you dont deal with bull**** emotional baggage, you dont have to put up with needy, codependent girls just because you want to sleep with them

                          and when you find a nice one, its easier to look her in the eye and make her feel special for the right reasons... and then you can pull out the whole, "I was waiting for the right girl" line and she'll just ****ing melt
                          To us, it is the BEAST.

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                          • #43
                            Did you think I considered myself that smart or/and jerky?
                            No, we just think you have a mancrush on him.
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                            • #44
                              Originally posted by Heraclitus View Post
                              She is an attractive young woman who has been abroad for 10 days and has been talking to me less and less with each passing day.
                              If you're clingy to the point of needing to chat with her constantly when she's only been gone ten days, if she hasn't already, she likely will find some no strings attached casual action.

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                              • #45
                                Ask the same question, only say from her viewpoint. What would you want her to say?

                                I voted, "no". Listen to me on this one.
                                Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
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                                He also hates Texans and Australians, he does diversify." ~ Braindead

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