What do girls look for in a man.

[CrONoS]

Seriously;

I don't think there is one thing, there is many kind of women and also long term relationship can be based on psychologic disorder...

But just to play your game;

Confidence, confidence in himself, is what women are looking for a long term relationship.

Edit:
And also some feminine quality like; monogamous, being sensitive, etc...

[aneeshm]

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It had to be said, didn't it?




If you want to really know, then I'd recommend the book, "The Mating Mind", by Geoffrey Miller. If you want to have the background to understand that, then read Dawkins' "The Selfish Gene" before that.


And, of course, the good old Player Guide.

[aneeshm]

More seriously:

The hardwired "attraction" triggers in a woman's brain go off when confronted with a male who provides the greatest advantages to her genes, in terms of replicative success. Note that these triggers are not optimised for urban human society, they are holdovers from tribal, hunter-gatherer hominid society.

In general, these tend to be indicators of social status relevant to a tribal environment.

They're drawn to it the same way that men's initial attraction triggers are all indicators, in general, of fertility (and, to a much lesser extent, of intelligence).

[ColdPhoenix]

Well there's a lot of different girls and things they look for. One thing that is important for a lot of girls for a long-term relationship is the ability to take care (support financially, emotionally and protection) of self and her (doesn't necesssarily mean that she'll want you taking care of her, just to be able to) and any kids she may want in the future.

[Spec]

Originally posted by ColdPhoenix
Well there's a lot of different girls and things they look for. One thing that is important for a lot of girls for a long-term relationship is the ability to take care (support financially, emotionally and protection) of self and her (doesn't necessarily mean that she'll want you taking care of her, just to be able to) and any kids she may want in the future.

Bingo. 90% of woman have to feel secure with their man. Thats what they look for PRIMARILY. Its in their genes.

Security is the term i was waiting for.

Now, how many of you agree?

You guys will see where this is going soon enough.

Spec.

[Cort Haus]

I don't think that it's right to say that all women want X or Y. Different women probably, in fact almost certainly, want different things.

I certainly don't think that any one man can claim to know the answer, largely because there is no single, right answer.

However, those of us who have lasting and good relationships can reasonably claim to be in possession of what it is that our partners are after. Having just clocked eleven years in my relationship I can confidently assume that I have what my woman wants.

[Lorizael]

Originally posted by Spec
Bingo. 90% of woman have to feel secure with their man. Thats what they look for PRIMARILY. Its in their genes.

Security is the term i was waiting for.

Now, how many of you agree?

You guys will see where this is going soon enough.

Spec.

In my experience this isn't true, but I've only got the two women I've been with to go on.

[Sir Og]

I agree that women are looking for men who can provide for them and their offspring. In one word "security".

[ZEE]

why does this thread worry me...?

[ColdPhoenix]

Originally posted by Lorizael


In my experience this isn't true, but I've only got the two women I've been with to go on.

A lot depends on the age of the woman. When younger security isn't an issue for most, in fact many are more likely to go for some waster because they think he's cool/will annoy parents.

[Lorizael]

[LordShiva]

[Tiamat]

Women will tell you and act like they want the pretty boys.......and we do. But only for a time. When it comes down to it we want undying love and devotion with a man that only has eyes for us no matter how much weight we might gain or hairs that might turn grey. He always has to think we're the most beautiful thing in the world. We want stability, loyalty, kindness, someone to hold our head when we're sick. But most of all someone who makes us think and makes us laugh.

I've said it so many times on this board before. Beauty fades, but stupid is foever. You really want to be sitting on the fron't porch with someone you can't hold a conversation with cause by this point fu*king is out even with viagra

[Spec]

Originally posted by Cort Haus
I don't think that it's right to say that all women want X or Y. Different women probably, in fact almost certainly, want different things.

Hence why I said 90%.

However, those of us who have lasting and good relationships can reasonably claim to be in possession of what it is that our partners are after. Having just clocked eleven years in my relationship I can confidently assume that I have what my woman wants.

Just for the hell of it, ask her why she is with you.

Because you probably make her feel safe and, as a +, you make her happy at the same time.

Spec.

[Spec]

Originally posted by AAHZ
why does this thread worry me...?

Because you have nothing women want.

Spec.