Been having a bit of a go around with the husband reagarding a situation that came up with one of our friends. She can't have children and he doesn't want to wait the years for adoption so he went on the internet (without her knowledge) and advertised for a woman to have a child with him. And if I understood he meant the normal way not insemination. He apparently got responses back and he responded to a few something to the effect of "your hot, I'm really interested, want to hook up?" She found them in his email and fliped out, especially since he was trying to make these hook ups just days before his wifes birthday.
She felt like this was cheating since they were married and you vow to be true to the one person as well as she felt that there was intent. He obviously was trying to meet someone. I agreed with her, he cheated. Steve says nope not cheating since nothing happened. So is it or isn't it? Does it only constitute cheating if penitration occurs? IMO he betrayed her, her trust and the trust she placed in the marriage. So did he cheat or didn't he?
She felt like this was cheating since they were married and you vow to be true to the one person as well as she felt that there was intent. He obviously was trying to meet someone. I agreed with her, he cheated. Steve says nope not cheating since nothing happened. So is it or isn't it? Does it only constitute cheating if penitration occurs? IMO he betrayed her, her trust and the trust she placed in the marriage. So did he cheat or didn't he?
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