Well, my father has been that for some three months - he needs heart surgery but isn't strong enough to handle such, so ...
It isn't so much about the dying, that I can accept, it's the fact that I live some 300 km away and can't do anything - yeah, I know, even if I lived next door I neither could do anything, but then I could at least visit regularily.
Anybody out there with similar experience ? How to handle that things gets worse week by week, while he is a fighter that doesn't give up and you are stuck far away ?
Yeah, I know - 300 km isn't much - a couple of hours driving, but you can't do it every day.
It isn't so much about the dying, that I can accept, it's the fact that I live some 300 km away and can't do anything - yeah, I know, even if I lived next door I neither could do anything, but then I could at least visit regularily.
Anybody out there with similar experience ? How to handle that things gets worse week by week, while he is a fighter that doesn't give up and you are stuck far away ?
Yeah, I know - 300 km isn't much - a couple of hours driving, but you can't do it every day.
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