condom questions

[b etor]

Originally posted by Darius871


How did you have an emotional attachment to friends of friends of friends? And what sort of durations are we talking here?

i end up liking them. well, 2 of them anyway.
one was the hockey captain of my school a few years ago, and the other graduated with my friend's older brother from a different highschool.

durations as in...?

Originally posted by Darius871

Bingo. Although more accurately I'd say she would become exposed to the absolute truth that a majority of men do only want sex.

Basically yeah, but it might not just make her abusive. It could also lead to A) a lifetime of unfulfilling, meaningless sex, B) getting trapped with an abusive partner simply because he's skilled in feigning love, and/or C) loneliness and hopelessness spilling over into depression about life in general. And of course we all know the end result of C.

that's fine with me. for now.

C has already occured. UGH. B will never happen.

[MRT144]

the majorty may be 51%

[Jon Miller]

After I went to college one of the people I knew ended up calling a bunch of people (who I had went to highschool with).

He had gotten HIVs somewhere, and he hadn't known when...

Because of the high amounts of promiscuity, a lot of people were very frightened for a while, although I don't think the final numbers were epidemic.

A lot of the girls that were in my classes, many of whom were among the most intelligent people in the school (I was in all the advanced classes) became whores afterward highschool (an in several cases, towards the end). I haven't kept up with them, because it depressed me. But of several I wouldn't say they were doing good...

Jon Miller

[Elok]

You call yourself a teenager, b etor? You're also not supposed to be getting boned like a fish, but you do it, no? Get creative. Have a friend order it for you and pay her for it. Get somebody with more freedom to buy one for you and make the switch. Or arrange a "birthday present from my friend Kelly" in the mail. Really, I don't buy this "I can get some penis, but no vibrator" nonsense.

...how did I end up advising a teenage girl/FBI plant on getting access to sex toys?

[Jon Miller]

Durations... like for a time my sister couldn't keep a boyfreind for more than a month or so. I think she has kept them a bit longer by now, but her boyfreinds are still often younger than 18.

And she is older than I am (27 in May) and has 4 kids.

Jon Miller

[Darius871]

Originally posted by b etor
i end up liking them. well, 2 of them anyway.

And what about the rest? You just felt "neutral"?

Originally posted by b etor
one was the hockey captain of my school a few years ago, and the other graduated with my friend's older brother from a different highschool.

So they are way older than you, why am I not surprised...

Originally posted by b etor
durations as in...?

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/duration

As in how long. Did prince charming feel like someone you could have deeply personal conversations with on a daily basis?

Or did he smile and make a few witty remarks at your friend's house just to get your heart thumping, blow his load a few times throughout a week, and then get boring?

Originally posted by b etor
C has already occured. UGH.

So why make matters worse?

Originally posted by b etor
B will never happen.

Sure, how many thousands of battered wives have thought the same exact thing...

[Drake Tungsten]

...how did I end up advising a teenage girl/FBI plant on getting access to sex toys?

I don't know, but you better come up with a reason that a jury will buy...

[Asher]

Originally posted by MRT144
I have some integrity (been a long time coming)

MRT "long time coming" 144

[Darius871]

Originally posted by MRT144
the hilarity of not being able to order goods or services online, but find prospective sexual partners.

Touche.

[Solver]

You know, b etor, if what you're posting here is true or mostly true, what you need is some good friend you can trust. Like, really seriously trust with any issues. Maybe a guy.

[Drake Tungsten]

Take a look as to why sex (and all of those other things) is more fun than masturbation and its the human element. It's the connection and the feeling(s) with the other person. Which is great when you are mature and stable enough (job, eduaction, network of friends/family) to handle consequences of the actions.

having sex for the sake of getting off is well and good, but that really becomes a sustainable, mutually beneficial action, when both people involved are able to handle the bad things that can happen.

at 15, I dare say no one, nor anyone who would have sex with a 15 year old are at that point.

Well said.

BTW, what does it say about Poly when the former porn star is one of the most responsible people when it comes to sex?

I'm guessing it means that most people here don't have the experience to know what the **** they're talking about on this issue...

[Dis]

Originally posted by Elok
You call yourself a teenager, b etor? You're also not supposed to be getting boned like a fish, but you do it, no? Get creative. Have a friend order it for you and pay her for it. Get somebody with more freedom to buy one for you and make the switch. Or arrange a "birthday present from my friend Kelly" in the mail. Really, I don't buy this "I can get some penis, but no vibrator" nonsense.

...how did I end up advising a teenage girl/FBI plant on getting access to sex toys?

If she wants, I'll buy her one and send her one. That sounds really bad, doesn't it? I'm sure I'll be violating some law or another.

She doesn't live in Texas (I heard someone got arrested for selling sex toys door to door). But she does live in a weirdo state.

Sometimes I think my state, is the only sane state of the Union. Nevada.

edit: I can only imagine what her father would do if some strange guy over the internet was sending his daughter a vibrator. I hadn't thought of that before. Why do these things have to be handled so discreetly? What's wrong with pleasuring oneself? It's not like I'm doing it to her. I have no interest in that.

[b etor]

Originally posted by Darius871

And what about the rest? You just felt "neutral"?

So they are way older than you, why am I not surprised...
Did prince charming feel like someone you could have deeply personal conversations with on a daily basis?

Or did he smile and make a few witty remarks at your friend's house just to get your heart thumping, blow his load a few times throughout a week, and then get boring?

So why make matters worse?

Sure, how many thousands of battered wives have thought the same exact thing...

yea

not wayyy older. 17-24.
i DO talk to one of them almost daily. i like him lots.

B will NOT happen. i have lived with it long enough. if any other guy tried beating me, he'd be dead and i'd have some prison time. or i could say it was self defense since it would be...

Originally posted by Solver
You know, b etor, if what you're posting here is true or mostly true, what you need is some good friend you can trust. Like, really seriously trust with any issues. Maybe a guy.

i have friends like that.

[b etor]

Originally posted by Dis


If she wants, I'll buy her one and send her one. That sounds really bad, doesn't it? I'm sure I'll be violating some law or another.

She doesn't live in Texas (I heard someone got arrested for selling sex toys door to door). But she does live in a weirdo state.

Sometimes I think my state, is the only sane state of the Union. Nevada.

edit: I can only imagine what her father would do if some strange guy over the internet was sending his daughter a vibrator. I hadn't thought of that before. Why do these things have to be handled so discreetly? What's wrong with pleasuring oneself? It's not like I'm doing it to her. I have no interest in that.

father: what's that package you got in the mail?
me: ohhhh nothing....

masturbation is a sin, silly.

[Darius871]

Originally posted by b etor
not wayyy older. 17-24.

Hell, as far as I'm concerned anyone 17-18 f***ing a 15-year-old is a manipulative bastard at best, and anyone 18+ doing so is the scum of the earth who should be castrated by spoon. But that's just me talking.

Originally posted by b etor
i DO talk to one of them almost daily. i like him lots.

You like him so much that you'd take it from the 'neutral' guys in between chats?

Originally posted by b etor
B will NOT happen. i have lived with it long enough. if any other guy tried beating me...

You're 15 and you've already had a boyfriend/lay of the day/whatever beating on you? How does that happen?