condom questions

[Darius871]

Originally posted by b etor


i have no idea. she'll probably be alive.

Even so, why screw her over? What did she ever do to you?

Originally posted by b etor
because vibrators are so easy to come by... besides, that takes most of the fun out of it.

What's so much more "fun" about getting schtupped by some stranger? If you don't have even a hint of emotional attachment, he's nothing more than a tool.

Originally posted by b etor
people at my school are gross. i'd never do anything with any of them, except like 2. but i wont, because they go to my school.

If not from classmates then where is this deluge of phalluses coming from? Just some homeless guy sitting on a park bench eying little girls with bad intent?

[Dis]

I'm curious as to how it would alter her peceptions of men. I'm not saying you are wrong, I'm just curious how it would happen.

Are you saying that she would learn that men only want sex? Or only want her for sex? And that would cause her to believe men are creeps and it's okay to abuse them?

I don't like her using the word use. I've been used by a lot of women (unfortunately not for sex ). That is troubling. It seems every woman I've known has used me for something or another. Why do women always use men? But to me, using a man for sex is one of the better ways to use them. It's better than being a **** tease to try to get attention and gifts from men.

Yeah, I think she should have higher aspirations. But she's young. And as long as she's taking precautions, I don't see too many long term adverse effects of this. So when she's older, she won't have a kid or STD to pay for her impulsive behaviour at a young age.

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Darius871





What's so much more "fun" about getting schtupped by some stranger? If you don't have even a hint of emotional attachment, he's nothing more than a tool.

It goes both ways actually . As a guy that has schtupped a stranger or two , its ultimately pretty empty. It feels fine but is nowhere as good as what it can be with someone that you have a connection with

Originally posted by Darius871

If not from classmates then where is this deluge of phalluses coming from? Just some homeless guys sitting on a park bench eying little girls with bad intent?

I assume she has friends and acquaintances outside her own school.

[Darius871]

Originally posted by Flubber


What about she have sex with OLDER guys?? That could also be better than the 1 minute efforts of her punks at school.

Dateline here I come

Originally posted by Flubber
Ditto. The "passing around" was sometimes pretty literal with some intoxicated young things at parties. I recall a couple of girls that seemed to pride themselves on doing the basketball team or the hockey team or whatever

Yep, we had that girl too but for the football team - she actually kept a checklist in her day planner to show to her friends. At least it'd be useful for the Health Department when they try to contain the spread of an outbreak.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Flubber


It goes both ways actually . As a guy that has schtupped a stranger or two , its ultimately pretty empty. It feels fine but is nowhere as good as what it can be with someone that you have a connection with




I assume she has friends and acquaintances outside her own school.

I have to agree since I have been with prositutes. It is pretty empty. It feels, good, and you feel pretty good for a few hours after. But after that, there's nothing there. It hasn't changed you, or made any meaningful contribution to your life. In the end, it's just blowing a load.

[MRT144]

Originally posted by Flubber
The few very promiscious girls had way more sex than even the most active of the boys

the pressing question is, "are they worse for the wear?"



at some point too, and this is my personal experience, when you contract an STD like herpes (like me) you will be forced to interact sexually, or at least be inclined to interact sexually with people who are less desirable, and more prone to have problems that you dont want to handle.

You also become much less desirable to even date, much less bone with many people who you would normally be able to.

I have some integrity (been a long time coming) in being truthful with all partners, but that doesnt mean all guys do.

[b etor]

Originally posted by Elok

Have you ever tried a vibrator? "Try them, try them, and you may--try them and you may, I say." And I don't see why you can't order one online from Amazon or eBay or somewhere else like that, along with a pile of innocuous books. Do your parents inspect your online purchases and such, or do they respect your privacy that much?

Come to think of it, I'm not sure that even the handle of a hairbrush wouldn't be more effective than a teenaged boy, though you'll have to ask an, ah, experienced woman to know.

i'm not allowed to order things online.
men > hairbrush handle

Originally posted by Darius871

What's so much more "fun" about getting schtupped by some stranger? If you don't have even a hint of emotional attachment, he's nothing more than a tool.
If not from classmates then where is this deluge of phalluses coming from? Just some homeless guy sitting on a park bench eying little girls with bad intent?

not strangers, friends of friends of friends. i've had emotional attachments.
heck no!
the internet is so useful these days.

[b etor]

Originally posted by Darius871
Yep, we had that girl too but for the football team - she actually kept a checklist in her day planner to show to her friends. At least it'd be useful for the Health Department when they try to contain the spread of an outbreak.

My friends don't know about my sex life. You guys do, but I don't actually know any of you and you don't know any of my friends, so IDC. Well, a small few of my friends know, but that's it IRL.

[MRT144]

the hilarity of not being able to order goods or services online, but find prospective sexual partners.

[MRT144]

Originally posted by b etor




My friends don't know about my sex life. You guys do, but I don't actually know any of you and you don't know any of my friends, so IDC. Well, a small few of my friends know, but that's it IRL.

how do a small amount of your friends know? is it because you are truly great friends or is it because they have been privy to the experience or one of their friends has?

[Darius871]

Originally posted by Dis
I'm curious as to how it would alter her peceptions of men. I'm not saying you are wrong, I'm just curious how it would happen.

Are you saying that she would learn that men only want sex? Or only want her for sex?

Bingo. Although more accurately I'd say she would become exposed to the absolute truth that a majority of men do only want sex.

Originally posted by Dis
And that would cause her to believe men are creeps and it's okay to abuse them?

Basically yeah, but it might not just make her abusive. It could also lead to A) a lifetime of unfulfilling, meaningless sex, B) getting trapped with an abusive partner simply because he's skilled in feigning love, and/or C) loneliness and hopelessness spilling over into depression about life in general. And of course we all know the end result of C.

[Darius871]

Originally posted by Flubber
It goes both ways actually . As a guy that has schtupped a stranger or two , its ultimately pretty empty. It feels fine but is nowhere as good as what it can be with someone that you have a connection with

How does this example show that it goes both ways?

Originally posted by Flubber
I assume she has friends and acquaintances outside her own school.

I know, I just wanted to see if anyone would catch the Jethro Tull reference.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Darius871


How does this example show that it goes both ways?



I know, I just wanted to see if anyone would catch the Jethro Tull reference.

I got the reference.

[Darius871]

Originally posted by b etor
not strangers, friends of friends of friends. i've had emotional attachments.

How did you have an emotional attachment to friends of friends of friends? And what sort of durations are we talking here?

[b etor]

Originally posted by MRT144


how do a small amount of your friends know? is it because you are truly great friends or is it because they have been privy to the experience or one of their friends has?

the few of my best friends i have told. one i have done stuff with. none of my guy friends know. that would not be a good thing.