What do you look for in your significant other?

[Spiffor]

I'd mostly look for tenderness and care.

[Sirotnikov]

I can't stand the thought of being with someone stupid or someone that has no interests or hobbies.

Also someone who is funny and cynical and we can exchange cheap shots at each other's expense with no hard feelings

That's fun IMO.

The problem is that it is hard to find women that are a) smart b) fun c) pretty d) interested in me.

I usually find only 2-3 of those qualities.

Seeing a "a, b, c" type is annoying as hell

[LordShiva]

Originally posted by Spiffor
I'd mostly look for tenderness and care.

I look for those characteristics in my steak.

[Sirotnikov]

ROFL

[Jon Miller]

Girls are rarely interested in me. Generally, the best I determine is that they were somewhat interested in me in the past.

I honestly consider all the people I have met, and I start to lose hope of ever finding a significant other.

JM

[CrONoS]

Originally posted by b etor
well if u want her to swallow u better be considerate and make sure you taste good.

I try as hard as I can!

[Spec]

Originally posted by Jon Miller
I honestly consider all the people I have met, and I start to lose hope of ever finding a significant other.

JM

That's the worst attitude you could ever have.

Believe in yourself, and strike out as many times as you need, you'll find her someday.

It's better to be at the bat and strike out in hopes of hitting one someday than to be a benchwormer.

Spec.

[Flubber]

There is always a certain standard in looks but more important on the attraction/sex side of things is a good attitude toward their sexuality-- someone that knows what they want and are not afraid to be the aggressor. I dated a couple of super-hot women and once you got past the fact you were having sex with such a hot woman, the hangups and limitations just get in the way. besides, in the long run, looks may fade but a great attitude is more likely forever---


Outside the bedroom stuff

-- must be smart-- not necessarily book-smart but with a quick wit

-- must appreciate sarcasm
-- must have spunk and a mind of her own

[LordShiva]

Re: What do you look for in your significant other?

Originally posted by Dis
But I pretty much described her, and she described me in what she looks for in a man.

So are you two finally going to do each now, or what?

[Krill]

1. Female, preferably cute/pretty, not stunningly beautiful. I'd like someone I could hold onto.
2. Sense of Humour
3. Personality; outgoing, likes to go out, etc
4. Intelligence. Not too smart, not too dumb.
5. Non-smoker, not a heavy drinker etc.

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Asher
Personality
Energy
Nice ass
Intelligence
Sexy

Fixed. Although I think Asher's biggest criteria is found if you read down.

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Krill [list=1][*]Female, preferably cute/pretty, not stunningly beautiful.

My experience with women that would generally be considered "stunningly beautiful" was that they were so used to having me go ga-ga over them that they rarely learned to put an equal effort into a relationship. Some of them expect to be pampered and in bed they just expect showing up with their super-hot body is enough.

Give mw the girl that is hot but without the "I'm so hot" attitude and you have a keeper

[Ben Kenobi]

Gosh, good question.

1. Someone who knows how to love.
2. Compassionate.

Those are the two most important.

[Asher]

Your SO isn't going to be Christian, BK?

[Jon Miller]

Being Christian has raised in importance for me the last year. Although I still think it is not required.

JM