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**Pekka** · February 9, 2007, 13:30

And this is why you hate your bodies, nudity and sexuality and have a big problem with it

**SlowwHand** · February 9, 2007, 13:32

No, this isn't African culture, or wherever. Clothing isn't optional most places.

**Dinner** · February 9, 2007, 13:33

We all can't be manly Finns who sit naked in hot rooms with other men, wacking each other's backs with tree branches, and then running naked into the snow.

**SlowwHand** · February 9, 2007, 13:34

MAN! Doesn't that sound like fun?

**Pekka** · February 9, 2007, 13:35

African culture? No, peopel are quite fine with nudity in most places around the world.

I mean, imagine I've seen all my friends naked, including women and men. My family, most of my relatives, many of my friends parents and/or relatives. We just don't think there's much wrong with it.

By training and sending message of 'put your shirt on young lady' at the age of 6, yeah, you're sending a message that it's not OK. And they're kids at that point too, not like you see titties hanging out.

I'm sorry, I just don't think there's anything wrong with nudity. And it isn't sexual by default.

**Pekka** · February 9, 2007, 13:36

Oerdin, that's great. I recommend you try it sometimes.

Or are you ashamed of your naked body? Do you think you can't live with other peopel seeing your penis, or are you afraid you'll start to gaze the penises of other guys? Or both?

Come on dude.

**KrazyHorse** · February 9, 2007, 13:41

Originally posted by SlowwHand
The girl needs to be dressed.

**Combat Ingrid** · February 9, 2007, 13:49

Originally posted by Pekka
I'm sorry, I just don't think there's anything wrong with nudity. And it isn't sexual by default.

Rolling naked in the snow after a sauna bath

**SlowwHand** · February 9, 2007, 13:53

Few people have sex with their clothes on, to my experience. I mean, unless it's some quicky in the closet at work or something.

**Pekka** · February 9, 2007, 13:56

So? People have sex in the car, but it doesn't mean it's a place of sex.

It's all about how people see things, for some it's different than for some others.

Besides, a 6 year old isn't knowledgable about sex, even when they're going to bed topless. And if there's some pedophiles in the dinner table, well, I'd suggest the problem is there

**Combat Ingrid** · February 9, 2007, 14:00

Originally posted by SlowwHand
The girl needs to be dressed.

Originally posted by SlowwHand
Few people have sex with their clothes on, to my experience. I mean, unless it's some quicky in the closet at work or something.

So they should have a quickie in the closet with the little girl?

**Kuciwalker** · February 9, 2007, 14:02

Six? No problem.

**Pekka** · February 9, 2007, 14:03

I mean it's all about the context, right?

If I go to sauna with bunch of people, it's not a sexual event.

If a 6 year old girl doesn't have a shirt on in her own home, it's not a sexual situation.

But yes, I mean, in the context, if there was someone who is older, with breasts out there, and outsiders in the house, well, that's not appropriate.

And even though I don't mind little kids being naked in public, I mean as a temporary solution, well I wouldn't say it's OK for example my kids unless there's an accident, because there are lots of weirdos out there, to who it might be sexual.

So it's all about the context, and a 6 year old going to sleep, I don't think there's anything wrong with it, because of the context.

**Pekka** · February 9, 2007, 14:06

And sure, I understand that it might be a bit uncomfortable to see that, because you're in someone elses house so.. as a guest, you might feel out of the place a bit. I'm not saying that feeling a bit weird in that situation would make one something bad, of course it might seem a bit weird. Understanding there's nothing wrong with it, it's OK, but sure, you're the guest in someones house, a bit unusual, because it's not your own home, so you're out from the home zone.

**Spec** · February 9, 2007, 14:07

Originally posted by Pekka
African culture? No, peopel are quite fine with nudity in most places around the world.

I mean, imagine I've seen all my friends naked, including women and men. My family, most of my relatives, many of my friends parents and/or relatives. We just don't think there's much wrong with it.

By training and sending message of 'put your shirt on young lady' at the age of 6, yeah, you're sending a message that it's not OK. And they're kids at that point too, not like you see titties hanging out.

I'm sorry, I just don't think there's anything wrong with nudity. And it isn't sexual by default.

Spec.

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