I crushed my crush

[Provost Harrison]

You may jest, but your subconscious desire spilled out

[Pekka]

Might be, I can't deny it might be a possibility. I just really doubt it's likely, since if I was into that, I'd most likely admit it and celebrate it. But, you never know.

[Proteus_MST]

Originally posted by Pekka
I should be more clear and tell her, that if I really wanted her pee infested panties, I would use force and get them.

So you are planning to replace the "maybe pervert" sign she probably has attached to you in her mind with a "maybe violent" sign.
Not a good move unless she likes Hardcore BDSM

[Imran Siddiqui]

I think it's more 'maybe pervert' sign to 'maybe rapist' sign .

[Provost Harrison]

I think the only thing you can do Pekka is direct her here to your manic rants. Especially the ones involving cold hands and the other about your fetish for freezing conditions. I think that should put her straight about you

[Spiffor]

That's golden!

[Zoid]

Indeed

[LordShiva]

wtfp?™

[snoopy369]

I think pekka's on to something, though. Test the waters early. If she can't handle that, she can't handle pekka, and he might as well go elsewhere now rather than waste more time on someone who can't handle his magnificent oddness...

[Addled Platypus]

Originally posted by LordShiva


wtfp?™

[Makahlua]

Originally posted by -Jrabbit
You're screwed Pekka. You blew it. Trust me, she won't forget what you said.
She may choose to ignore it, but you've got a long uphill climb ahead of you. Don't get your hopes up.

QFT & wtf pekka?

And ditto what Proteus said about the labels in her head - you'd get a free upgrade to "avoid this guy if you can" in her head

[Pekka]

Well, that's ok. When I find a girl who understands me enough and likes it, I'm set. I'm not suitable for everyone. The person who wants me as their partner will be someone who can handle stuff. And if they can, they are great. Now why should I settle for anything less than great?

The world is filled with guys, who do everything to get a girl, just any girl, and they'll change themselves according to what the girl thinks you can become. You're just a project to them. Well let me ask you this, how desperate you have to be, to let everything be told, how to look, what to say, how to act, what to buy, what to think.. I don't need a mom, I already have one.

I am who I am, and I'm quite fine with it. If you want someone else, then you need to go and get someone else. I'm not going to act being someone who I'm not, just so that I can .. keep it up for the rest of my life. I'm what you see is what you get. If you don't understand what you're seeing, then you're prolly the kind of girl who thinks about giving some of that punani to a dude who has a nice car. Just so maybe you can be seen in that car, maybe your friends will like you better then.

I'm not looking for someone to submit to them or to dominate them (except maybe in bed). I'm looking for a partner, not a slave or a master. And I'm not so desperate, that I would go and think that there aren't any girls out there who won't like me. There are, there's lots of girls who likes me. But I need to like them as well. We both need to like each other. If you want to settle for less, and 'be real with life', then sure, go and do what makes you unhappy. I'd rather then just have sex with the opposite gender and hang out with my friends, have the best of the both worlds.

So, until we meet, I'm not going to be anyone's monkey.

[Pekka]

I mean, I don't want to live my life with a girl that I can mentally pound on.. they need to be individuals, real people too. People who can say, no Pekka, now you are full of BS. I definitely don't want anyone, who will listen to me and be nice about it, shake their heads as in 'I don't get it'. I want them to challenge me, and then I win some and I lose some. Someone who has abilities to high abstract thinking, and yet strong logical and structural thinking skills.

Now, it's OK if they aren't, but then they have to be like really nice otherwise. I could see myself with a homemaker as well, if they are fun to be with. A lot of great women do that thing, they're proud, they do a great job, and that's all you could ever ask for. Some of them are the most honourable people I could ever even know. How can you ask for anything more than that?

Or an artist. Not some crap hippie artist, but a skilled one. Or a professional person, I don't mean a hooker, but someone who is highly career oriented and very professional, who can analyze stuff. This is what this last girl was I think.

[Dinner]

Originally posted by Imran Siddiqui

I said, quoting directly, "I'm trying to make you laugh so hard that you'll pee in your pants, and then I want those pants".

wtf pekka

[snoopy369]

Originally posted by Pekka
I mean, I don't want to live my life with a girl that I can mentally pound on.. they need to be individuals, real people too. People who can say, no Pekka, now you are full of BS. I definitely don't want anyone, who will listen to me and be nice about it, shake their heads as in 'I don't get it'. I want them to challenge me, and then I win some and I lose some. Someone who has abilities to high abstract thinking, and yet strong logical and structural thinking skills.

Now, it's OK if they aren't, but then they have to be like really nice otherwise. I could see myself with a homemaker as well, if they are fun to be with. A lot of great women do that thing, they're proud, they do a great job, and that's all you could ever ask for. Some of them are the most honourable people I could ever even know. How can you ask for anything more than that?

Or an artist. Not some crap hippie artist, but a skilled one. Or a professional person, I don't mean a hooker, but someone who is highly career oriented and very professional, who can analyze stuff. This is what this last girl was I think.

I like how you use "they" throughout that post ... either you're unsure of the gender of your future person, or you want more than one