How do you get a girl?

[Lorizael]

Originally posted by Ecthy
Dis, if I can give you one piece of advice, that stuff doesn't exist. The times I was "successful" with girls I was not so but rather two minds happened to agree on something randomly. IE I had no plan and no strategy, things just turned out to happen. Before that came a few minutes of good conversation. Never had anything going with a girl I fancied for more than one evening without getting it on with her. Whenever I fancied one without it turning into something quickly, nothing happened. So all this plans and strategies and tactics stuff is absolute nonsense for me.

This might possibly have been what I was alluding to.

[Spec]

Originally posted by Ecthy
It's a funny one though as you must admit UR. Dis keeps posting the same stuff over and over again, gets the same sh!t tips from geeks and nerds as he's supposed to be one.

Hey, you all know I'm the exception here.

Spec.

[Spec]

Originally posted by Ecthy
Dis, if I can give you one piece of advice, that stuff doesn't exist. The times I was "successful" with girls I was not so but rather two minds happened to agree on something randomly. IE I had no plan and no strategy, things just turned out to happen. Before that came a few minutes of good conversation. Never had anything going with a girl I fancied for more than one evening without getting it on with her. Whenever I fancied one without it turning into something quickly, nothing happened. So all this plans and strategies and tactics stuff is absolute nonsense for [B]me[/ B].

Exactly, for you.

Spec.

[Spec]

Originally posted by Lorizael


Yeah man it was terrible. I had to stay with her for two freaking years man. Kept trying to do all these weird sexual things to me without me even asking. And always tried to engage me in these really long philosophical discussions that forced me to think a whole bunch. It was awful.

Panzy.

Spec.

[Ecthy]

I've had many friends agree with me on this one. You know, spending $100 on a whore is not a plan.

[Provost Harrison]

Originally posted by Ecthy
It's a funny one though...

[Provost Harrison]

Who comes to a bulletin board like this for dating tips anyway?

[Ecthy]

What is your advice for Dis then?

[Lorizael]

Originally posted by Spec
Panzy.

Spec.

I might be a panzy, but I've yet to have a relationship last less than two years.

[Spec]

Originally posted by Ecthy
I've had many friends agree with me on this one. You know, spending $100 on a whore is not a plan.

I wouldn't touch a whore with a 25 foot pole. I dont even go to strip clubs. Why the heel would I want to go see a naked girl that is WORKING and pay my beer 3 times the price for no reason except to have her prancing around naked in front of me. Stupid. I'd much rather want to go to a club where I can meet a girl and have a conversation and more if everything goes well.

Spec.

[Flubber]

Another happy married guy here . . .


I don't believe in tricks or crap like that-- I just use honesty and no BS. With a friend that you want to "know"better you have to flirt

My success rate was not 100% but it was pretty high since by the time I actually asked a girl out, I knew she liked to flirt with me and I had talked to her enough to know she wasn't, married, in love asexual or a irrevocable lesbian

[Flubber]

Originally posted by Ecthy
I've had many friends agree with me on this one. You know, spending $100 on a whore is not a plan.

Is that all they cost ??

[Snotty]

about $60 for 15 minutes in amsterdam, a bit more expensive in berlin, less competition i guess

[Flubber]

I do believe in playful flirtation as a painless way to guage interest. If a girl is into you she will play along-- if she isn't, she won't.


If done correctly, you can move the conversation in such a way that there is never any outright proposition. There is just slowly escalating teasing and suggestions until undergarments are being flung.

So learn to flirt. You may suck at it so practice on some other girls ( there is no harm in this )-- Don't learn patter or tricks

You will find that if you legitimately show interest in a girl, she will want to give you every chance in the world if she is at all attracted to you. If she thinks you are fugly-- well then you are on your own

[Stuie]

Flirting.

I forgot how much fun that was. Ah, married life...