How do you get a girl?

[Ecthy]

BTW, it's nothing but a rumour that the French be good lovers and all. Pay no notice to Spec

[Japher]

Spec was ALMOST married

I AM married

listen to me

[Ecthy]

Well, I never got married, shows who knows most about girls

[Spec]

Originally posted by Stuie
Ask her if she'd like to go out after work for coffee. Keep it simple and see if you hit it off over coffee or not (assuming she says yes. If she says no then you can harbor bitter resentment until you don't like her anymore, then move along.)

Never ever move along, there's always a way.

You no she said no to you twice already, but it never hurts to ask again without seeming desperate. Example again, if you didn't scare her off, one time or another she'll ask you:" so what are your plans this weekend?" you can always answer, with a smile on the side:" Depends on you."

I never give up. And I never seem desperate. I mean, when I have a chance to pull a comment in I do it, but I dont search for the occasion.

Spec.

[Spec]

Originally posted by Japher
Spec was ALMOST married

I AM married

listen to me

That's because you found the right one, I was about to make a mistake. Cheers to you on that one for finding the right one.

But, I got out with a different girl one after the other. I never spend a week without a "girlfriend".

Listen to me, afterwards, when you have her, you're on your own.

Spec.

[Kuciwalker]

How many times do I have to tell people here? (*cough*johnmeoclad*cough*) Walk up to the girl, talk to her, ask her on a date (dinner/movie/whatever), if you get shot down move on. There are about 3 billion of 'em and a lot of them are cute.

[Bosh]

Originally posted by Kuciwalker
How many times do I have to tell people here? (*cough*johnmeoclad*cough*) Walk up to the girl, talk to her, ask her on a date (dinner/movie/whatever), if you get shot down move on. There are about 3 billion of 'em and a lot of them are cute.

QFT

Fish in the sea and all that...

[Jon Miller]

Originally posted by Spec


Yea...you should know...You probably the worst person here to give girl advice. No offense.

Dont listen to him.

Spec.

He is not being like you and chasing after lots of girls. He has basically been after this one, who has a boyfreind, for over a year. Even when she dumped her boyfreind for a bit.. Dis still didn't get with her. She teases him, and leads him on a bit, but seems to have no real interest in him (otherwise she would have responded).

I am pretty good at giving girl advice, as I have observed a lot. What I am poor at is confidence.. theory I am fine with.

Jon Miller

[Jon Miller]

For you, never giving up is fine. Because you are going after many girls. So if one doesn't pan out.. it isn't really a waste. Dis has really only been after this one.. that is why there is a difference from your experience.

(He has been after this one so much, that when he got a girlfreind he didn't click with her/ignored her so that they broke off)

JM

[SpencerH]

**** the rules. If you're interested in her then ask her out. What's the worst that happens, she says no. If you dont ask you'll never know.

I married my wife after only a few months of knowing each other and we've been married for 26 or 27 years (maybe 28 after all this time it's hard to keep track).

[Jon Miller]

He has asked her out.. when she and her boyfreind broke up for a bit.

JM

[Ecthy]

JM, learn to insult people back when they insult you. Wuss

[Arrian]

Well, you dont give her a choice. You dont ask her, you tell her. Example, you come up to her and say: " Hey Sheela, you know what? I'm taking you out on saturday, my treat, where do you wanna go?"

Ugh, this really works? It sounds like a bad line from a movie (given to the "sleezeball" character).

-Arrian

[SpencerH]

Originally posted by Jon Miller
He has asked her out.. when she and her boyfreind broke up for a bit.

JM

So she's back with her boyfriend?

[Ecthy]

Worst place to ask for stuff like this.

I think Dis is a troll.