How do you get a girl?

[MRT144]

ph I didn't mean the porn thing had a way, the way I meet girls, on a bus for example. I smiled she sat behind me, she leaned over to ask me for the paper I was reading, I asked her to a mvoie I was on my way to see, and we dated for a month

I didn't plan that, or expect that, but it happened

[Stuie]

Originally posted by Flubber
Flirting continues to be fun even as a married guy . I know my wife is going home with me and may know that she's a sure thing but we both still enjoy the flirtation

Yeah... well... let's just say "flirting" got me into trouble once. So as a want-to-stay-happily-married guy, I find it best to avoid it.

So I come here and live vicariously through Dis. Ugh.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Jon Miller
So you are finely over her? Good for you.

JM

yeah, I'm still a little sad, but I'm about 99% over her.

[Dis]

Originally posted by Lorizael


This is a bad thing because of a concept that a lot of guys - including myself - have difficulty wrapping their heads around.

It is that some women can find a man attractive, want to spend time with him, flirt with him, have a play at sexual innuendo, consider him proper material to date and have a relationship with... and still have absolutely no desire whatsoever to enter into a relationship with said man.

Women - and again this is straight from the mouths of my many female friends - can often simply turn on and off being attracted. Can turn on and off wanting a relationship. Can make a conscious choice to not pursue attractive prospects, simply because they don't feel like it.

While males don't tend to be "over emotional" the way most females appear to be, most females seem to be able to exert a control over their feelings and motives that few males ever do.

Yeah it just amazes me how fast women can "turn it off". How can they go cold so fast? Live and learn I guess. But it makes it harder to trust women in the future.

[Lorizael]

Go gay.

Or...

Catch them when they're vulnerable and proceed to construct a long term relationship that, while making you incredibly happy, undermines their self esteem to the point that they can't even consider leaving you, because they "know" that they'd be nothing without you.

[Kuciwalker]

Originally posted by Lorizael
What this means is that flirting is not necessarily an indication of interest or attraction; it's often just a fun and enjoyable activity.

Erm, a girl is someone you have fun with. Various types of fun.

[Kuciwalker]

Originally posted by Lorizael
This is a bad thing because of a concept that a lot of guys - including myself - have difficulty wrapping their heads around.

It is that some women can find a man attractive, want to spend time with him, flirt with him, have a play at sexual innuendo, consider him proper material to date and have a relationship with... and still have absolutely no desire whatsoever to enter into a relationship with said man.

Women - and again this is straight from the mouths of my many female friends - can often simply turn on and off being attracted. Can turn on and off wanting a relationship. Can make a conscious choice to not pursue attractive prospects, simply because they don't feel like it.

While males don't tend to be "over emotional" the way most females appear to be, most females seem to be able to exert a control over their feelings and motives that few males ever do.

Erm, guys can turn it off fine too. At least I can. I'm not actually in the market, as I'm taken, but it's still fun - almost a game, really.

[Ecthy]

And that's coming from the butt-ugly kuciwalker

[Provost Harrison]

Now now...

[Kuciwalker]

[Ecthy]

I think you're doing something right kuci, quite honest there.

[Lorizael]

Originally posted by Kuciwalker
Erm, a girl is someone you have fun with. Various types of fun.

Uh. Yes. Indeed. Won't deny that in the least bit. But lots of guys seem to assume that flirting will inevitably lead to a specific type of fun, when more often than not the flirting is all the fun there'll be.

Erm, guys can turn it off fine too. At least I can. I'm not actually in the market, as I'm taken, but it's still fun - almost a game, really.

I'm sure there are guys that can. But I'm willing to bet that most, especially when in the market, cannot. You think Spec, for example, can turn it off?

[Dis]

depends on how you mean turn it off. He seems to be in real control over his emotional side. He seems to be able to leave women with no problem.

Myself, I can't do that.

[Spec]

Originally posted by Lorizael


I might be a panzy, but I've yet to have a relationship last less than two years.

Your problem.


Spec.

[Spec]

Originally posted by Flubber
So learn to flirt. You may suck at it so practice on some other girls ( there is no harm in this )-- Don't learn patter or tricks

Woohoo! Right on.



Spec.