Dammit, I think I'm in love.

[Flubber]

What guardian said

[Apocalypse]

You're in Houston now? You can come to the Texas Polymeet in a few weeks.

[Lorizael]

This totally sounds like the plot to a movie.

Uh. Arguing because you're "both too passionate" is a cop out. You should probably figure out if there's some sort of underlying conflict that impedes your interaction with her, or if the two of you are just arguing because people do that sometimes.

[Elok]

You have a right to be upset with this girl. You have photographic proof that she's been cheating on you with Greg Brady.


....sorry, had to be said. Anyway, has anyone here suggested talking to her about how you've been feeling (I read the whole OP, you didn't say I had to read the various wiseacre responses)? If she's the one that got you interested in monogamy, there's probably something unusual about her one way or another. If worse comes to worst, you'll just have another fight.

[Saras]

get drunk.

[self biased]

tuck that tail between your legs kaak, if she means that much to you. as you just found out, something truly special can occasionally be found in things that look all alike. if you were indeed 'attached at the hip' for two months, then maybe it's best to schedule 'alone time' for each of you.

too much of a good thing can be bad for you, my friend.

[Japher]

you're definitly a changed man Self

[Stuie]

Re: Dammit, I think I'm in love.

Originally posted by Kaak
Her name is Lauren (i'll attach a pic at the bottom).

Well, thanks for that anyway.

After a month, we started getting on each other's nerves, and arguing more, and getting into a few biggggg arguments. I say it is because we are both very passionate people. Anyway. It started as a little leak in the dam, and instead of fixing it, we dug out the edges and watched the dam assplode. Shortly after our two month we decide we are fighting too much and we need to just call it off.

What were you fighting about? Stupid **** (like sports or food or your favorite color) or important stuff (like religion and kids and sexual preferences).

If it was stupid ****, try again. If it was important stuff, neither of you are going to be happy compromising, so move along.

[Q Classic]

Honestly, the description that you posted comes across as a perfect set-up for one of a hundred different romantic/romantic-comedy movies.

Guy's a player, guy meets girl, guy loses girl...

The happy ending has the guy getting the girl again. That's where you'd do what Self-Biased or Stuie or anybody else in this thread says. Of course, then you run the risk of her not wanting a happy ending.

There's also the happy ending where you go to a parlor and then pay a little extra in a tip, I understand.

The ending I'd honestly advise is one of asceticism and solitude, but that's because I just want everyone to be miserable--and because I think it makes for a better story.

But really... wtf are you doing here? STFU and go get 'er.

[self biased]

i've been thinking about that too, japher...

all told, my escapades ran from late october 2003 to mid april 2004. not quite six months. and for those six months, i was battling a moderat depression that was the sum of lonlieness, and not seeing the sun for months at a time because i worked overnights, and slept during the day. 'the grand project' as it was, was about eighty-seven percent a joke, and doing so entertaining mostly myself in the small hours of the night.

me posting my quests here was me further trying to bolster my wounded ego. i maintain that i was always looking for miss right, and god damn it, i found her. the whole fiasco lies in the fact that some people think contrary to what my whole mission was. that somehow i misled my position to those girls, lied to them, or intentionally decieved them. i was never anything but honest with any of them.

the whole spectacle had benefits for others as well. hell, it even inspired ozzyKP to find a girlfriend, and do so successfully with a little support from the rest of us.

think of me what you will, but that's my story and i'm sticking to it.

[Japher]

yer a hippy

[Lorizael]

Originally posted by Q Cubed
The ending I'd honestly advise is one of asceticism and solitude, but that's because I just want everyone to be miserable--and because I think it makes for a better story.

I made this suggestion to my girlfriend and she was none too pleased.

[MrFun]

Hey Kaak; I read the entire OP.

[Q Classic]

Lorizael: Obviously, your girlfriend has an addiction to social contact.

[Mrs. Tuberski]

seems a classic case of two independant people that bellowed thier heads in the others asses. I see no reason this relation can not work if the two of you are both willing to take a step back and put a bit of time away from each other into play. For example continue to date but see each other less a week, instead of being joined at the hip dislocate it for a day or two a week and see were that takes ya. Under no circumstances do you accpet or imply that you should both see other people s romantic interests, that never works. Kaak it sees the two of u fell hard and fast, now if u want to make it work the two of u need to step back and find out a little more about each other, best way to do that is to find out what you guys are arguing about ad discuss why each of you differ of opinion. you will not always agree, but if you want to be with each other its a start, to really see if the arguments are mennial or serious enough to end the realtionship.

By the way guys women do not want to be right all the time, it just so happens it works out that way