How easily can you get a date with a woman (or man)?

[Dr Strangelove]

Women drop their pants for me. No really, all I have to do is ask.

[Spiffor]

Ur 4 cheet3r

[chequita guevara]

Re: How easily can you get a date with a woman (or man)?

Dunno, been with one woman for the last 15 and a half years.

[chequita guevara]

Re: How easily can you get a date with a woman (or man)?

Originally posted by Dis
But my friend didn't believe me when I said I was shy and didn't have much luck with women. She simply couldn't believe I could not get a girlfriend. Of course she has a better opinion of me than I have of myself. That's one reason.

You should have asked her if she was interested in the position?

[chequita guevara]

Originally posted by Winston
The shoes! Don't forget to talk about the shoes. In a manly sort of way, of course.

Don't knock it, it works!

[Urban Ranger]

1. Have confidence
2. Make her laugh
3. Remember what she says (esp. those important days and things)

[OzzyKP]

Originally posted by Spiffor

Because I suck. Duh.
Besides, French girls sure love to have sex, but not many of them are promiscuous. Most girls want to find Mr One, and many are able to wait before accepting sex. However, once they do accept, they offer a good time.

My perfect woman.

[Provost Harrison]

Originally posted by Urban Ranger
1. Have confidence
2. Make her laugh
3. Remember what she says (esp. those important days and things)

It is biologically impossible for a bloke to remember an important day. I even struggle with Christmas

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison
It is biologically impossible for a bloke to remember an important day. I even struggle with Christmas

That's why paper and pencil were invented.

[Odin]

Originally posted by Dis
Sometimes I think there's some kind of secret or trick that I don't know about when it comes to getting women. Maybe it's some secret handshake .

It's so easy for some guys.

You get her boozed up.

[Odin]

Originally posted by Silver14
My last girlfriend turned out to be such an evil psychotic ***** that I think I'll be just fine and dandy being single for the next 10 years.

I'll probably ask some out before that decade is up but if they say no I probably won't care much.

My advice: don't be depressed just be happy you aren’t the person she murdered.

My last GF was fine untill she started getting the idea I was cheating on her with a classmate in my History class last semester (which I wasn't).

[Fake Boris]

Originally posted by Dis


the problem with that I encounter is I enter the "just friends" category, and have no hope of a romantic relationship.

I know there's some kind of transition you must do, and you have to do it early. I just don't know how to do it.

You need to turn a conversation into physical contact. If you're walking with her and it starts raining, put your arm around hers and hold the umbrella together. Dance with her. Give her a massage (hand massages are a good way to start). Share a single ice cream cone. If she reacts positively, chances are you're on the right path.

[DaShi]

Or leave the country. That drives them nuts for some reason.

[Dis]

I need women advice. yes I know about the wisdom of asking for women advice on poly. But I've had a few drinks, so bear with me.

This isn't about my friend. I'm happy with L. being my friend. I wouldn't trade that for the world. ahh who am I kidding, if she offered a bj, I'd take it in a heartbeat. I'm so bad. But seriously, she's such a great friend. I can talk to her about emotional things I could never talk to a guy friend about. I love her. I can't sometimes believe the deep down feelings and secrets I reveal to her.

Now I have this other woman I'm into (actually I've been into her since December). She's a coworker. The problem is she has a boyfriend and 2 kids. But her boyfriend seems like a loser. Sure he's good looking. But I know for a while he didn't have a job (he still might not have a job). And left her alone on christmas to go visit his father in Mexico, I didn't like that. She's mexican as well (actually she's mexican-american- born in the midwest). But I thought I had no shot with her. But some **** happened this weekened that made me believe I do have a shot with her.

I was discussing my new car with another female coworker. But the girl I am interested was standing there as well. I was joking I had nothing else to spend my money on, so I bought the car. then the girl joked that I could spend the money on her. This statement has me going. I figure she was joking. But sometimes people joke, but there's actually an element of truth to it. I've been putting my arm around her lately, and she seems to like that. And she even gave me a little massage yesterday. She told me I was tense. Which I was. It was a tough day at work.

But I'm still not sure what to do about her boyfriend. I always heard it was against the code to go after another guy's girlfriend. But she deserves better. Sure he's better looking than me. But he can't offer her no future. And not to stereotype (okay I am), but he seems like he might be the violent, jealous type. I'm just not sure if I should go for it.

[Gibsie]

Originally posted by Odin


My last GF was fine untill she started getting the idea I was cheating on her with a classmate in my History class last semester (which I wasn't).

Since you were already taking the heat for it, should've had a crack anyway.