I can't stop being the other guy

[Az]

Maybe it would be appropriate for all 15 of the guys to drop by at once and 'have a word with you', Apoc - then you can see who has been hard done by. A cheated person doesn't have to find out to suffer, as the cheater loses respect for their cheated partner, and treats them accordingly.

you're right on the last part, but like 95% of the blame of causing pain is on the girls in this case....

[Cort Haus]

Originally posted by Az

Maybe it would be appropriate for all 15 of the guys to drop by at once and 'have a word with you', Apoc - then you can see who has been hard done by. A cheated person doesn't have to find out to suffer, as the cheater loses respect for their cheated partner, and treats them accordingly.

you're right on the last part, but like 95% of the blame of causing pain is on the girls in this case....

True, these girls are trash - the blame is shared.

[Ecthy]

I have a feeling everyone involved is trash, including the guy cheated upon

[Tuberski]

Originally posted by Apocalypse
I don't consider myself a nice guy either. I'm considered bit of an ******* actually, especially by the two girls who probably know me best right now.

Well, I have to agree with them. You don't want a realtionship, you want a single woman so you have a place to stay.

Do you sleep with either of the 2 women?

ACK!

[Tuberski]

Originally posted by Apocalypse
Well I'm going out for drinks with the married one this Saturday night. Wonder how this will go...

You see nothing wrong with this?

You really need some self respect. You go out with married and attached women, precisely because you don't have to worry about a commitment from them.

ACK!

[Japher]

it's not self respect that's the issue it's fear of rejection

at least this way he knows they have an excuse

it's also fear of commitment

[OzzyKP]

Originally posted by Apocalypse
The stuff I did a couple weeks ago got around pretty well. The guy doesn't know.

Her boyfriend wrote "Hey baby! I miss you so much! I hope you had a good time, gimme a call whenever you get settled back in. LOVE YOU!" on her facebook wall. I feel so bad.

You son of a *****!!!!

I wrote that!!!!

I'm gonna break your legs!!!!

[Apocalypse]

Originally posted by Tuberski


Well, I have to agree with them. You don't want a realtionship, you want a single woman so you have a place to stay.

Do you sleep with either of the 2 women?

ACK!

One of them.

[Apocalypse]

Originally posted by Tuberski


You see nothing wrong with this?

You really need some self respect. You go out with married and attached women, precisely because you don't have to worry about a commitment from them.

ACK!

Actually I'm hoping when she is drunk I can get her to explain why attached women find me attractive.

[pchang]

Its more likely that when she is drunk, she wil just want to fool around. You will get no useful information from her (except where and how she wants it).

When they say they are single, you have to take their word for it until you find out otherwise. If they say "not to worry", tell them that you do and that you are not the kind of guy who could be with a woman, knowing that she is a cheater. For the ones that say they are single and are lying, you must say the same thing when you find out.

After several episodes of this, word should get out and your reputation will change.

[Apocalypse]

Nah, it'll be kept in a public area. I have a lot of self control here. If I don't want something to happen, it won't happen.

It has nothing to do with reputation either...my friends outside school don't really know eachother very well.

[pchang]

You will still not get any useful information. I have never ever received a shred of useful information from a drunk, horny woman.

Be strong. True changes in your inner person will come out. You may not notice anything, but ina short while, others will.

[Apocalypse]

She won't be that drunk. Probably only a bit buzzed. I'm rather responsible with alcohol and have prevented problems in the past in various situations.

[pchang]

Are you aware that the real meat of my posts is in the latter sections?

[Apocalypse]

Yes, that is why I responded to the latter section of your first post.

The second one, I'm not sure how to respond exactly.