I can't stop being the other guy

[Ecthy]

Originally posted by Apocalypse
I kinda just want a girlfriend so I can live with someone this summer.

Doesn't sound like the right approach in my ears. But then I might be over-judging.

[Gibsie]

If you want a "proper" relationship, here's an idea: stop sleeping with girls before you get to know them well enough to determine whether or not they already have partners. I know this isn't rocket science, but something tells me you've not been thinking with the head on your shoulders.

[ajbera]

Apocalypse, you poor, poor thing.

While I can understand the desire for a real, stable relationship with one girl, I must say feeling sorry for your plight is like feeling sorry for someone who's complaining that the lottery money keeps rolling in.

"Another ten-thousand dollar check that I didn't earn? Dammit!!"

Why don't you ask all these women you're sleeping with if they have any nice single friends?

[Apocalypse]

I don't always go all the way with them...

and if they don't get some, they get offended and cry.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Then you should laugh at them and say "THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS TO CHEATERS! CRY WOMAN, CRY!"

[Spec]

Originally posted by Japher
yes.. whores

Manwhore is actually a real word

I'm a whore, and the upside is that I dont get paid.

Spec.

[Gibsie]

Originally posted by Apocalypse
I don't always go all the way with them...

and if they don't get some, they get offended and cry.

Yeah, but you do on more occasions than you should, far sooner than you should. Keep the numbers of couple of the hotter girls on your playlist, and then try a bit harder not to fool around with any new girls until you know them a lot better. Use the current girls you have to take care of your "needs" in the meantime.

If a woman was whining about not being to find a decent guy, but then she started saying how all these guys she met in clubs would sleep with her and then not call her, I wouldn't be very sympathetic to her either.

[Apocalypse]

It's usually the women who are more aggressive. I don't even enjoy sex very much most of the time. It's not me who is trying to rush things.

[Jon Miller]

we agree

you just need to learn to say no

JM

[Apocalypse]

But I'm hoping something willl happen that will be good for the future.

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Barinthus
For one thing, move out of your parents'. Easier said than done I know.

This is very hard for me to understand. What's wrong with staying with your parents?

It seems that spending money you don't need to spend is dumb...

[Apocalypse]

They are really bad people and I get depressed whenever I have lived with them. I eat just packaged and microwavable food because it means I don't have to be in the kitchen and can just be in my room the entire time. I am too tired to work out as much. That type of thing.

They saw some pictures of my ring figure from back in November (with the one who got married actually). She is asian and they didn't like that. They responded by parking their car in front of mine in the driveway during St Patrick's Day so I couldn't leave. That's just a mild example of why they are just kinda impossible to live with.

[Barinthus]

Originally posted by Urban Ranger


This is very hard for me to understand. What's wrong with staying with your parents?

It seems that spending money you don't need to spend is dumb...

Oh dont get me wrong. Nothing wrong with that. Just that if he wants to be considered a relationship material, it's a suggestion.

No half decent woman want to be with a guy who gives out an appearance of being 'dependent' on his mommy and daddy.

[Jon Miller]

yeah, I remember some of your stories Apoc

they sounded hard to deal with

could you possibly live on your own?

most people don't like to live right away with the person they are dating anyways (they like a bit of distance available)

I know that VA at least is pretty cheap...

JM

[Urban Ranger]

Originally posted by Barinthus
No half decent woman want to be with a guy who gives out an appearance of being 'dependent' on his mommy and daddy.

Not necessraily. He could be helping out with the work around the house, etc.

Besides, there's nothing wrong with being "dependent" on the parents at this stage. Later on in life the parents will become dependent on their sons and daughters.