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  • #16
    This would be a good thing, because I do not want children of my own.
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    • #17
      If she's the one, then I don't care if she can't have my super babies. We can always adopt, or rent-a-...... I guess?

      There's things we can try, treatments. If they don't work out, if we can't have a kid of our own at all, then we can adopt a small baby and raise it as our own. I see no problem.

      But then again, if she's the one, I find it difficult to believe she cant' have my super babies, because to match me, she has to be like .. well partner for the SC. You know, no weaknesses pretty much.
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      • #18
        shrug it wouldn't bother me. I once dated an infertile woman and let me tell you - savings in condoms were very nice.

        Heck I even think I'm sterile - at this rate of how many women I've been with I'm surprised I don't have a kid running around.

        Kids are cute but for me they're something to look at and go awww but not to raise one.
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        • #19
          If she's hot, yes.

          Not too wild about bringing babies to world going to hell in a handbasket.

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          • #20
            I'd probably be happy with adopting. I'd probably also donate to a sperm bank though.
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            • #21
              Originally posted by Pekka
              There's things we can try, treatments. If they don't work out, if we can't have a kid of our own at all, then we can adopt a small baby and raise it as our own. I see no problem.
              The problem with adoption is - it seems that how kids come out is mainly a genetic thing. Upbringing doesn't matter as much. So despite your efforts, you may raise a criminal

              Even worse, the probability you'll do just that is increased since a mother who gives up her child is usually not the best genetic material around.

              I've recently read Freakonomics, a book that explains these things

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              • #22
                But, but . . . . . what about your obsession with procreation?
                There are no guarantees in life Mr. Fun.

                If she's able to have kids, then yes, I would see that as a positive, and I would enjoy starting a family.

                But if I had to make the choice between leaving someone that I really loved and between not having the kids, I would choose the former over the latter.
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                • #23
                  Originally posted by VetLegion


                  The problem with adoption is - it seems that how kids come out is mainly a genetic thing. Upbringing doesn't matter as much. So despite your efforts, you may raise a criminal

                  Even worse, the probability you'll do just that is increased since a mother who gives up her child is usually not the best genetic material around.
                  And Pekka is?



                  As for myself, I wouldn't see infertility as a problem wrt to marriage.
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                  • #24
                    However, if I was in love I might (although I would want to have a child using someone elses egg and my sperm then).
                    Nope. If I'm going to have kids it's going to be with someone that I love and we can raise them together.
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                    • #25
                      In my current reality. . . yes-- I have one child and if ever I was single, an inability to have children would not be an issue. heck I'm over 35 already mysself so unless I go for a younger woman , the window for children would be somewhat brief anyway.

                      In an alternate reality .. . also yes. Although I cherish my son, I can imagine having a fulfilling life with no children
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                      • #26
                        I'm already married, no kids yet. Not sure if we will have any. As far as I know, my wife is capable - but hey, nothing's for certain. Heck, *I* could have something wrong w/my sacred sperm for all I know.

                        Infertility wouldn't change whether I loved someone. Thus it would have no impact on marrying them, since to me marriage is about sharing your life with the person you love. And there are other methods for having children.

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                        • #27
                          Definitely maybe.
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                          • #28
                            Absolutely.
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                            • #29
                              Isn't a better question: would you marry someone that you couldn't have sex with?
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                              • #30
                                Or even better: would you have sex with someone you couldn't marry?

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