So what are your thoughts on this? Is it pathetic? I guess it is, but I can't help it.
The thing is, when I'm on my ass doing nothing, and a fellow employee is being swamped in work. I offer to help. That's the kind of guy I am. It just so happens that most of the employees at my company are women. And they have the toughest (in terms of being busy) jobs. I guess that's why I like the company I work for. Lots of women. . But yes I admit I help the women more than the men.
I don't expect anything out of it. I'm not that much of a pig. All I want is a thank you and some appreciation. So I don't think this is some form of hidden chauvenism.
And I don't just do it for the pretty women. I do it for the average looking women too. . But I admit, I only do it to the women who are nice to me. Some of the women I work with barely even acknowledge my existence. I don't help them. Is that wrong? It's only natural to help those who are nice to you.
So I'm not sure what to do. Social relationships are complex. I still haven't figured them out. That's why I never have a girlfriend I guess. I just can't figure out human social conventions. But what I have decided is I'm going to accept myself for who I am. I am what I am. And I'm a nice guy who likes to help friendly women. I don't care if it means they don't respect me. If I have to treat a woman like crap to get their respect, then I don't want their respect. I'm simply not capable of treating women badly. I am willing to accept my eternal status as a nice guy.
The thing is, when I'm on my ass doing nothing, and a fellow employee is being swamped in work. I offer to help. That's the kind of guy I am. It just so happens that most of the employees at my company are women. And they have the toughest (in terms of being busy) jobs. I guess that's why I like the company I work for. Lots of women. . But yes I admit I help the women more than the men.
I don't expect anything out of it. I'm not that much of a pig. All I want is a thank you and some appreciation. So I don't think this is some form of hidden chauvenism.
And I don't just do it for the pretty women. I do it for the average looking women too. . But I admit, I only do it to the women who are nice to me. Some of the women I work with barely even acknowledge my existence. I don't help them. Is that wrong? It's only natural to help those who are nice to you.
So I'm not sure what to do. Social relationships are complex. I still haven't figured them out. That's why I never have a girlfriend I guess. I just can't figure out human social conventions. But what I have decided is I'm going to accept myself for who I am. I am what I am. And I'm a nice guy who likes to help friendly women. I don't care if it means they don't respect me. If I have to treat a woman like crap to get their respect, then I don't want their respect. I'm simply not capable of treating women badly. I am willing to accept my eternal status as a nice guy.
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